You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
noobolgy said:Post the opening msgs you use for pof please.
Which multi-account, no-p*ssy-getting troll are you?djjizzyjeff said:You won't get anything from Sparky. She just loves making up "lay reports".
Zarky said:Which multi-account, no-p*ssy-getting troll are you?
I still don't understand why the mods allow multiple users from each IP address.
Glad my attention can brighten your day.djjizzyjeff said:The same one a 38 year old homeless dyke can't seem to get enough of.![]()
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
the mods don't care... and are basically worthless/powerless anyway because bans have to be run by the guy who runs this site... and all he cares about is $... Not having a productive board....Zarky said:Which multi-account, no-p*ssy-getting troll are you?
I still don't understand why the mods allow multiple users from each IP address.
Signed up there, seems pretty slow so far. I'm realizing that one of the very, very few positives about this board is that nobody here ever talks about seduction "gurus."bukowski_merit said:pua-zone.com
PairPlusRoyalFlush said:Why do you even post on a site with "very, very few positives"? Did that ever cross your mind? Sad.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Oh please, what effort? The guy has this down to a science with the copy pasta and so forth... I admire this guys ingenuity, he is applying business-logic to nailing the hussies on PoF with minimal time wasted, good for him!Jaylan said:Its good that you enjoyed some good sex, but all of that effort for a girl that you arent much attracted to on a personal or physical level makes me remember why I dont use OLD anymore.
Better than nothing I guess.
Zarky said:The last 3 posters seem to all be the same person.
This "guy" has this down to a science? Please tell us what proof led you to believe Zarky the clown is even remotely telling the truth especially when Zarky has never laid out a detailed way on how she specifically does POF.PoonChaser said:Oh please, what effort? The guy has this down to a science with the copy pasta and so forth... I admire this guys ingenuity, he is applying business-logic to nailing the hussies on PoF with minimal time wasted, good for him!
Once you figure out how to play the online game (most guys never do) it really is easy pickings. The girls on PoF usually have low self-esteem and are easy to play.