"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Banged a girl 5 hours after meeting her

ManOfMystery

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Hey guys, last night I went to a party with some old high school friends, and one of the guys I am not that close with brought an attractive female along with him. There were over 15 guys at the party and only a couple of girls, since the party was for my group of guy friends. I figured it would be my first attempted pickup in this situation.

What I did:

She came, gave me some eye contact. All the guys introduced eachother to her and gave her lots of attention. I am one of the more popular guys in the group so I had social proof to the max. After about an hour in, I finally went up and met her, had a short convo with her. Later approached her again and talked for a while, many IOI's...asked me to go somewhere to eat one on one with her. Having a good time eating until the friend that brought her came and ****blocked me.(She later told me he wanted her too) Its ok though, I number closed and felt good. Was planning on calling her sometime in the next 3 days. She then left with the friend to get dropped off at home after the party, and she texts me at 3 am telling me "im so bored" and stuff, and then called me and said the same thing. I say, "want to hang out?" and she said if you pick me up...she lived 15 mins away.

Brought her back to my pad and finished my game and had a good, safe 4 hours of fun. It was light out already when we finished :whistle: . Afterwards she begged me to call her again soon.

My first asian. :rockon:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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KontrollerX

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Congrats brother.

Thats just the kind of positive story I needed to hear today.
 

kdnash82

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Good work!! It's been a while since I've had a quick fling like that. It's also been a while since I've even gone out to a party/bar/club. Just reading this story has given me a little itch that I might need to scratch sometime soon.
 

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comic_relief
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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leeman67

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Now are you saying that you banged her 5 hours after you met or that you Banged Her for 5 hours afer you met? LOL
 

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ManOfMystery said:
Hey guys, last night I went to a party with some old high school friends, and one of the guys I am not that close with brought an attractive female along with him. There were over 15 guys at the party and only a couple of girls, since the party was for my group of guy friends. I figured it would be my first attempted pickup in this situation.

What I did:

She came, gave me some eye contact. All the guys introduced eachother to her and gave her lots of attention. I am one of the more popular guys in the group so I had social proof to the max. After about an hour in, I finally went up and met her, had a short convo with her. Later approached her again and talked for a while, many IOI's...asked me to go somewhere to eat one on one with her. Having a good time eating until the friend that brought her came and ****blocked me.(She later told me he wanted her too) Its ok though, I number closed and felt good. Was planning on calling her sometime in the next 3 days. She then left with the friend to get dropped off at home after the party, and she texts me at 3 am telling me "im so bored" and stuff, and then called me and said the same thing. I say, "want to hang out?" and she said if you pick me up...she lived 15 mins away.

Brought her back to my pad and finished my game and had a good, safe 4 hours of fun. It was light out already when we finished :whistle: . Afterwards she begged me to call her again soon.

My first asian. :rockon:

i love asians over and over:)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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