"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Banged a girl 5 hours after meeting her

ManOfMystery

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Hey guys, last night I went to a party with some old high school friends, and one of the guys I am not that close with brought an attractive female along with him. There were over 15 guys at the party and only a couple of girls, since the party was for my group of guy friends. I figured it would be my first attempted pickup in this situation.

What I did:

She came, gave me some eye contact. All the guys introduced eachother to her and gave her lots of attention. I am one of the more popular guys in the group so I had social proof to the max. After about an hour in, I finally went up and met her, had a short convo with her. Later approached her again and talked for a while, many IOI's...asked me to go somewhere to eat one on one with her. Having a good time eating until the friend that brought her came and ****blocked me.(She later told me he wanted her too) Its ok though, I number closed and felt good. Was planning on calling her sometime in the next 3 days. She then left with the friend to get dropped off at home after the party, and she texts me at 3 am telling me "im so bored" and stuff, and then called me and said the same thing. I say, "want to hang out?" and she said if you pick me up...she lived 15 mins away.

Brought her back to my pad and finished my game and had a good, safe 4 hours of fun. It was light out already when we finished :whistle: . Afterwards she begged me to call her again soon.

My first asian. :rockon:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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KontrollerX

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Congrats brother.

Thats just the kind of positive story I needed to hear today.
 

kdnash82

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Good work!! It's been a while since I've had a quick fling like that. It's also been a while since I've even gone out to a party/bar/club. Just reading this story has given me a little itch that I might need to scratch sometime soon.
 

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comic_relief
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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leeman67

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Now are you saying that you banged her 5 hours after you met or that you Banged Her for 5 hours afer you met? LOL
 

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ManOfMystery said:
Hey guys, last night I went to a party with some old high school friends, and one of the guys I am not that close with brought an attractive female along with him. There were over 15 guys at the party and only a couple of girls, since the party was for my group of guy friends. I figured it would be my first attempted pickup in this situation.

What I did:

She came, gave me some eye contact. All the guys introduced eachother to her and gave her lots of attention. I am one of the more popular guys in the group so I had social proof to the max. After about an hour in, I finally went up and met her, had a short convo with her. Later approached her again and talked for a while, many IOI's...asked me to go somewhere to eat one on one with her. Having a good time eating until the friend that brought her came and ****blocked me.(She later told me he wanted her too) Its ok though, I number closed and felt good. Was planning on calling her sometime in the next 3 days. She then left with the friend to get dropped off at home after the party, and she texts me at 3 am telling me "im so bored" and stuff, and then called me and said the same thing. I say, "want to hang out?" and she said if you pick me up...she lived 15 mins away.

Brought her back to my pad and finished my game and had a good, safe 4 hours of fun. It was light out already when we finished :whistle: . Afterwards she begged me to call her again soon.

My first asian. :rockon:

i love asians over and over:)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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