"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Bands.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Yes sir, you must be in a band to be a DJ. It is a must. (sarcasm)
There is something about musicians that turns girls on. There is also a line between being emotional in songs an in conversations.
Isn't music a way to express how you feel? It doesent have to be about love or anything, but emotion must still be present.
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None of that sissy boy crap. <-- Chicks who like pansy boy bands still have to mature (anyone who listens to NSYNC should be shot). Performing in a [good] band, just like sporting piercings and tough tattoos, is associated with having balls - masculinity. That's part of the reason. The other, larger part is FAME.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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That... and the reason that everyone else likes them and they're on TV.Pretty much some of them are confused because they know that the lyrics are really wussy and they still listen to it.
Also remember.... These guys are unreachable... Completely untouchable in any way by these girls. So their words mean a lot more to them than just any guy saying that.
Another one..... They like to listen to them because it reminds them of themselves and how much power they have over men. And situations like that.
That's about all i can think of for now.
assassin
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it's about the attention. your up on stage. all eyes on you. as for the lyrics. chicks are emotional. they relate.