"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Bands.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Yes sir, you must be in a band to be a DJ. It is a must. (sarcasm)
There is something about musicians that turns girls on. There is also a line between being emotional in songs an in conversations.
Isn't music a way to express how you feel? It doesent have to be about love or anything, but emotion must still be present.
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None of that sissy boy crap. <-- Chicks who like pansy boy bands still have to mature (anyone who listens to NSYNC should be shot). Performing in a [good] band, just like sporting piercings and tough tattoos, is associated with having balls - masculinity. That's part of the reason. The other, larger part is FAME.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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That... and the reason that everyone else likes them and they're on TV.Pretty much some of them are confused because they know that the lyrics are really wussy and they still listen to it.
Also remember.... These guys are unreachable... Completely untouchable in any way by these girls. So their words mean a lot more to them than just any guy saying that.
Another one..... They like to listen to them because it reminds them of themselves and how much power they have over men. And situations like that.
That's about all i can think of for now.
assassin
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it's about the attention. your up on stage. all eyes on you. as for the lyrics. chicks are emotional. they relate.