"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Bands.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Yes sir, you must be in a band to be a DJ. It is a must. (sarcasm)
There is something about musicians that turns girls on. There is also a line between being emotional in songs an in conversations.
Isn't music a way to express how you feel? It doesent have to be about love or anything, but emotion must still be present.
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None of that sissy boy crap. <-- Chicks who like pansy boy bands still have to mature (anyone who listens to NSYNC should be shot). Performing in a [good] band, just like sporting piercings and tough tattoos, is associated with having balls - masculinity. That's part of the reason. The other, larger part is FAME.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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That... and the reason that everyone else likes them and they're on TV.Pretty much some of them are confused because they know that the lyrics are really wussy and they still listen to it.
Also remember.... These guys are unreachable... Completely untouchable in any way by these girls. So their words mean a lot more to them than just any guy saying that.
Another one..... They like to listen to them because it reminds them of themselves and how much power they have over men. And situations like that.
That's about all i can think of for now.
assassin
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it's about the attention. your up on stage. all eyes on you. as for the lyrics. chicks are emotional. they relate.