Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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sosuave, you should really consider banning justine. She is here solely to make our lives a living hell, and plus, the bytch is getting hard to ignore.

I really enjoy this forum, it's really done a lot for me. I probably speak for the rest of the DJs when I say that we don't want people like justine around poisoning the well, or so to speak.


Does anyone else feel the way I do, or am i on my own here? This is not a personal vendetta (I don't give a shyt about what she posts), I'm just concerned with the quality of the forums as a whole since she showed up.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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True she doing ACTIVE trolling!

I realise that the board admin are there and fast when they closed a thread where i feeded her.. (oups!)

They would have ban her already if they wanted to? I suppose they dont want her to create another account.

I suppose the first step is ignoring her, just like the advanced DJ's ignore newbies post.

But that is so annoying!
 

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Originally posted by Kanadasutra:
True she doing ACTIVE trolling!

I realise that the board admin are there and fast when they closed a thread where i feeded her.. (oups!)

They would have ban her already if they wanted to? I suppose they dont want her to create another account.

I suppose the first step is ignoring her, just like the advanced DJ's ignore newbies post.

But that is so annoying!
True, but the newbies are trying to learn and don't know any better.

But this bytch, on the other hand..... she is here just to cause trouble. If she keeps creating accounts, we could always do an IP ban.
 

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Good news, she won't be too much of a problem bn/c now I know that I can beat her at her own game. I had forgotten how much fun being a smartass is. Oh well, she is just good enough to get me going, but she kind of flakes after thatthough. It's getting too easy.

No matter what she says, I can turn the tables on her. So rest easy, my fellow DJs. After several sessions with me, she'll get worn down and leave.


So don't ban her until I've had some more fun.
 

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Originally posted by Drew:

It's because Wyldfire is cool and isn't a troll or a hater.
Damn straight sugar britches!

Now where should I send that check I promised you?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by Drew:

It's because Wyldfire is cool and isn't a troll or a hater.
Yeah, I agree. Wyld is okay after you get a couple of beers into her.
 

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Originally posted by Page:
Yeah, I agree. Wyld is okay after you get a couple of beers into her.


Um...I don't drink beer. It smells like skunk piss. I'll take a Toasted Almond, thank you very much. You're buying...

cheers!
 

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Originally posted by Wyldfire:
Um...I don't drink beer. It smells like skunk piss. I'll take a Toasted Almond, thank you very much. You're buying...

cheers!

You don't drink beer.. WTF?

I drink beer and I'm underage. The way I see it, if i'm old enough to buy tobacco and old enough to go to war, I'm also old enough to get wasted.
 

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Originally posted by Page:

You don't drink beer.. WTF?

I drink beer and I'm underage. The way I see it, if i'm old enough to buy tobacco and old enough to go to war, I'm also old enough to get wasted.



Nyah nyah nyah-nyah nyah!

Us Canadians get to Drink at ages 18-19
. Same goes for Tabacco purchase, etc...
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Cheers to Canadians *Drinks a pint*


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Us Canadians get to Drink at ages 18-19 . Same goes for Tabacco purchase, etc...
Plus you can smoke a phattie anywhere you want



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"Conclusions arrived at through reasoning have very little or no influence in altering the course of our lives. Hence, the countless examples of people who have the clearest convictions and yet act diametrically against them time and time again; and have as the only explanation for their behavior the idea that to err is human." Carlos Castaneda - The Fire From Within

"It is the responsibility of the strong to help the weak become strong" - Harlan Ellison
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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