"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I don't really see anything ban-worthy there. What is with this trend of wanting everyone banned who disagrees with our opinions? I've been seeing that a lot lately.
 

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
I don't really see anything ban-worthy there. What is with this trend of wanting everyone banned who disagrees with our opinions? I've been seeing that a lot lately.
Gio, read that thread and tell me what "opinion" he disagrees with. You see, he has no views of his own that he is willing to put up for scrutiny, he just takes his potshots at others.

-PDX
 

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Originally posted by SexPDX
Gio, read that thread and tell me what "opinion" he disagrees with. You see, he has no views of his own that he is willing to put up for scrutiny, he just takes his potshots at others.

-PDX
For starters, the opinion that laying one out of "hundreds" of women makes you anything other than an average PUA... or the opinion that these so-called techniques are any better than no technique at all when your success rate is about on par with someone with no technique and average game.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
For starters, the opinion that laying one out of "hundreds" of women makes you anything other than an average PUA... or the opinion that these so-called techniques are any better than no technique at all when your success rate is about on par with someone with no technique and average game.
If you could provide another example in the history of the community of someone getting a !close that quickly after learning a new method you might have a point but since it hasn't happened before, you don't. MTL_PUA took Mystery's workshop, approached a 7-set with 6 guys and laid her on the first meeting (which WAS a good job by him) but that's the closest instance there is to my knowledge.

-PDX
 

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Originally posted by SexPDX
If you could provide another example in the history of the community of someone getting a !close that quickly after learning a new method you might have a point but since it hasn't happened before, you don't. MTL_PUA took Mystery's workshop, approached a 7-set with 6 guys and laid her on the first meeting (which WAS a good job by him) but that's the closest instance there is to my knowledge.
Well, by the Law of Averages you're bound to eventually get a yes if you run around asking hundreds of women if they'll f*ck you. I wouldn't exactly call that a technique, but the point is that Elite Womanizer is pointing out that your success rate is about the same as what one might normally expect from no technique at all.

Bottom line: he's done nothing banworthy so far in this incarnation.
 

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I still believe EliteWomaniser_NN to be the reincarnation/alter ego of Bashful, Wjboogy, Struggling:

It would be worthless to ban him as he would keep, on his own word, coming back...

But for those who think that there is NO reason to ban him, have a look at his answer in "Any backfires from waiting to call after 7 days? NEED ANSWER BY TONIGHT PLEASE!! " thread:

"And number two, I dont give a flying fvck if no one on here likes me. I didnt come on here to make freinds with anyone. No one on here has anything to offer me. 95% of the ppl on here suck, and are horrible with women. But yet becuase they read the DJ bible and post on here, they feel it certifies them as a so called "DJ".

number 3, all of the advice given on here is crap. If all of the advice on here worked, there would be no one on here posting for help. THey would all be success stories, and nothing but success stories. But its clear there are rarely any success stories on here... "

There is a place for criticism, argumentation and new toughts on the board... but that's not what i see there. I just hope that his bitterness and desillusional thinking (about the DJBible more precisely) will not disturb newbies too much.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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He was banned, once again, for the same reason he was banned last time -- he is unable to post without insulting people and starting stupid flame wars.

If EW could learn to post appropriately, he would be welcome here to disagree and debate and challenge SexPDX and others all he wants. But I have a feeling that's not in his nature.
 
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