"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bam!! Its All About Presentation!!

Rint

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Presenting: Its the act of showing or to present to someone

Proof: I found something out studying the best playas or DJs at my school, and i found that it's not just cause their confident, cool, funny, and nice, but its how they present these features. My good friend DL is a great guy everyone luvs him he can tell a totally lame joke and everyone will laugh. I heard one of his jokes and tried saying it to totally diffrent people, and no one laughed. So i got DL to come over and say it and they all laughed. I then reliezed it was how DL presented it compared to me. He presented it with confidence he was going to make them laugh, and he presented courage by doing it even if he had doubts.

How do you present DJ features?: Well you cant take my word for it cause i can't do it, but to present DJ features is to have that feature inside you. I see some guys who fake it till they make it, and people don't like that guy. At first they'll like them, but they'll eventually see the fake, and you will lose respect.

When can you present DJ features?: CONVERSATION it's the perfect place to present you got DJ features. I asked a friend of mine who is a girl and is totally fine DDs i'd tap that if i wasn't so deep in the friend zone, cause i've known her 6 years, and i asked her what makes girls love playas, and she was telling me how its just how they feel attracted to confident men and Alpha Males and stuff, because that's human instinct to go for manly confident men and that instinct is in all women. So in order to present that in a conversation is not be afraid to ask or say anything, but the trick is you gotta know where it's just rude or offensive, but other then that you can show your confident, and brave by taking a chance with a joke or being the first to break the ice and open up.

Tone: Tone and how you say it is A HUGE THING i cannot emphasize this enough. Like my friend DL told his joke he did it with a very manly, confident tone. How do you know you have a good tone? Well you can tell by how people respond to you, like if you can a silly tone no one will believe you and see you as sarcastic. You can also make up for tone with the way you talk. Like my friend DL is african american and he talks really ganster and ganster matches well with his voice cause it makes him seem confident and cool, while when other people try it they look like total jackasses. So you can make up with tone by the way you talk. Like nice guys are seen as *****'s cause they present themselves as *****'s while DL is a total nice guy, but he's presented as a bad boy, because of his ganster talk.

I hopes this help, and submit anything you might want to add to my theory
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The bottom line is get out there and keep trying until you get results.
 

Doggystyle

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Yes tone is very important, i believe a lot of people overlook there voice tone, as i did.

You get so much better results even by saying a simple "hi" in the right tone
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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True. Inflection is a big thing too, as is sincerity of your tone. Meaning what you say goes a long way I think.

AFC: "Hey, come on, you're not fat, don't be silly, you're perfect as you are"
DJ: low-tone, smooth, slow speech and constant eye contact
"Hey...<pause> you're not fat...I've seen fat...you 'aint it"

If you think it through, you achieve a lot this way. You establish authority, experience and cut through stupid self-esteem sh!t tests with one sentence.
 
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