"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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squirrels

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Ever make it up to B-more? I'm thinking about riding up to PowerPlant tonight...looks like the rain let up. There are a bunch of clubs and usually a lot of hotties running around.

I never have much luck there, though, for some reason. :(
 

Miles Davis

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I'm in College Park dude, moving into a new place next weekend. I've been to Hammerjacks a few times, lots of sluts there, haha. Also hitting the DC clubs too. But I find plenty of opportunities to meet chicks going to school with over 30,000 people. :)

I haven't been to PowerPlant before. Do you live close to Perry Hall? I've been around that area.
 

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I live IN Perry Hall...that's my 'hood. :)

College Park would be a good meeting place for the BW area...especially once school starts and the bars are teeming with drunk sorority chicks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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From Arlington, Virginia -- 5 minutes outside of Washington, D.C. Unfortunately, with a 60+ week professional job and an attention-seeking girlfriend, my ability to play wingman are few and far between.
 

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I'm in Adams Morgan. If you are interested in U St., 18th St., or downtown hit me up.

A1
 

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Will be back in Maryland in December until January. Might not be much help, but ah well...
 

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Anyone feel like doing B-more tomorrow night? I'm seriously considering going to Powerplant Live...it's like 6-8 clubs packed into a small area, plenty of women if the weather's nice.

I could use a wing. :)
 
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