"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ballroom Dancing or Swing Dancing?

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Which should I take up?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Learn swing first it opens the doors to other types of dance, and you can use swing at most dances and parties and have everyone awed. Take the ballroom later on. I'm sure it can't hurt to have both dancing skills.
 

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Personally, I'd consider any or several of the Latin dances. Not only can many of the movement be integrated into other dance styles, I have yet to meet a woman who didn't appreciate a man who could dance the Salsa!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What's the difference?
Which is more impressive, really, is what matters.

Latin dances, you say? Which?
 

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MrS said:
What's the difference?
Which is more impressive, really, is what matters.

Latin dances, you say? Which?
Salsa, Merengue, Cha Cha, Mambo, Samba, Rumba, Bolero, Mambo, Paso Doble, Tango, Milonga, the list goes on and on. For clubbing I suggest Salsa and Samba, for something sexy with a partner the Merengue and Tango. If you just want to show off, the Gato. Knowing more than one is definitely advantageous. :up:
 

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Where do you dance tango? OR even cha-cha for that matter?

Just learn salsa - it's the easiest or them all, and it's the only one that's actually danced.

You might as well know waltz and quckstep, but if you're not on a competition, you're never gonna apply it for picking up ladies.
 

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I've taken some Swing and I've been told by an instructor that Swing can be incorporated into Salsa.
 

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just learn salsa... it's usually offered as a full course anyways...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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david2006 said:
just learn salsa... it's usually offered as a full course anyways...
Nah, I wouldn't learn just the Salsa, everyone who knows Latin dance knows Salsa and nothing else. Don't want to be a one trick pony, mix it up a bit and really stand out.
 

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Latin Dances = Sexy as PHUCK.

The end. Plus, latinas = muy muy bella.
 
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