"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ballroom Dancing or Swing Dancing?

MrS

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Which should I take up?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Learn swing first it opens the doors to other types of dance, and you can use swing at most dances and parties and have everyone awed. Take the ballroom later on. I'm sure it can't hurt to have both dancing skills.
 

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Personally, I'd consider any or several of the Latin dances. Not only can many of the movement be integrated into other dance styles, I have yet to meet a woman who didn't appreciate a man who could dance the Salsa!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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What's the difference?
Which is more impressive, really, is what matters.

Latin dances, you say? Which?
 

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MrS said:
What's the difference?
Which is more impressive, really, is what matters.

Latin dances, you say? Which?
Salsa, Merengue, Cha Cha, Mambo, Samba, Rumba, Bolero, Mambo, Paso Doble, Tango, Milonga, the list goes on and on. For clubbing I suggest Salsa and Samba, for something sexy with a partner the Merengue and Tango. If you just want to show off, the Gato. Knowing more than one is definitely advantageous. :up:
 

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Where do you dance tango? OR even cha-cha for that matter?

Just learn salsa - it's the easiest or them all, and it's the only one that's actually danced.

You might as well know waltz and quckstep, but if you're not on a competition, you're never gonna apply it for picking up ladies.
 

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I've taken some Swing and I've been told by an instructor that Swing can be incorporated into Salsa.
 

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just learn salsa... it's usually offered as a full course anyways...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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david2006 said:
just learn salsa... it's usually offered as a full course anyways...
Nah, I wouldn't learn just the Salsa, everyone who knows Latin dance knows Salsa and nothing else. Don't want to be a one trick pony, mix it up a bit and really stand out.
 

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Latin Dances = Sexy as PHUCK.

The end. Plus, latinas = muy muy bella.
 
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