"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ballroom dancing classes kick ass

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If you're in college and they have some kind of sports/recreation class like a ballroom dancing class, I'd recommend taking it. The women out number the men about 3:1, and the women are so timid that even the really hot ones stare at the floor and nervously giggle the whole time. They stare at their feet and are afraid to look you in the eyes, and they giggle all the time. Its fun because I'm not nervous or afraid to be dancing with them, looking in their eyes or talking to them but they are the ones who are afraid, which is nice.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MidnightResistance

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If only I could go back to being 18 with what I know now
 

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Take the class through a college, as you said, and not through a private dance school - especially if you live in FL or AZ. My ex-wife went to one session once where no one was under 60.
 

Le Parisien

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I think it depends on the circumstances.

Being very interested in all kinds of dance, once I took a night salsa class when I was still in college (Penn State), it looked like almost only the really fat chicks who had no friends and who had nothing better to do after 6:00pm wanted to join that class.

Ok, maybe it's just my bad luck.

At the same time, it's true that some good looking girls/women join these classes, but it really depends on a lot of things.

And the most important thing: don't ever try to join a dance class/club if you are NOT interested in dancing and you just want to meet girls. People can tell that right away, and it's not very appreciated.
 

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Originally posted by Le Parisien
I think it depends on the circumstances.

Being very interested in all kinds of dance, once I took a night salsa class when I was still in college (Penn State), it looked like almost only the really fat chicks who had no friends and who had nothing better to do after 6:00pm wanted to join that class.

Ok, maybe it's just my bad luck.

At the same time, it's true that some good looking girls/women join these classes, but it really depends on a lot of things.

And the most important thing: don't ever try to join a dance class/club if you are NOT interested in dancing and you just want to meet girls. People can tell that right away, and it's not very appreciated.
Hahaha coming from an experience salsa dancer, what you say is pretty true. TBH all the hot girls don't have to take classes. They learn very quickly because all the guys ask them to dance all the time. Only the ones that don't dance often need these classes to help them get better. Also all the "hot" ones come fashionably late so give them an hour or two before the hit the club.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by MidnightResistance
If only I could go back to being 18 with what I know now
If only i could go back to being 6 with what i know now. Id be a millionare.

Ninja out
 
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