"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ball is in her court or mine?

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Sgthaytham

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We haven't spoken for 3 weeks and she sent me a message asking how I was.

I told her it was nice to hear from her and that we should meet up at some point.

She's coming over to the town with some friends, so I told her I'd rather just see her.

She replies "Well I don't want to get lost there by myself".

I tell her to get in touch if she changes her mind and she quickly answers:

"It doesn't bother me, it's up to you".


I'm confused - maybe I shouldn't be, but I don't see what she wants me to do.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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She either doesn't care about having sex with you, or wants you to show that you want her first because she thinks it's your job.

My advice is the same in either case. If there's something you'd already like to do/go to without her, invite her to come. If she doesn't, keep spending your time and thoughts on things you enjoy instead of on her, and move on.
 
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Make a concrete proposal to her!!! You are being very vague, she's waiting on you to lead..

Let's grab a drink at 8pm on Thursday at the do drop in

Anything other than "yes great " move on..

Balls in her court my azz....the balls and the court are yours. Make it happen
 
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