"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ball is in her court or mine?

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Sgthaytham

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We haven't spoken for 3 weeks and she sent me a message asking how I was.

I told her it was nice to hear from her and that we should meet up at some point.

She's coming over to the town with some friends, so I told her I'd rather just see her.

She replies "Well I don't want to get lost there by myself".

I tell her to get in touch if she changes her mind and she quickly answers:

"It doesn't bother me, it's up to you".


I'm confused - maybe I shouldn't be, but I don't see what she wants me to do.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She either doesn't care about having sex with you, or wants you to show that you want her first because she thinks it's your job.

My advice is the same in either case. If there's something you'd already like to do/go to without her, invite her to come. If she doesn't, keep spending your time and thoughts on things you enjoy instead of on her, and move on.
 
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Make a concrete proposal to her!!! You are being very vague, she's waiting on you to lead..

Let's grab a drink at 8pm on Thursday at the do drop in

Anything other than "yes great " move on..

Balls in her court my azz....the balls and the court are yours. Make it happen
 
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