"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Ball is in her court or mine?

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Sgthaytham

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We haven't spoken for 3 weeks and she sent me a message asking how I was.

I told her it was nice to hear from her and that we should meet up at some point.

She's coming over to the town with some friends, so I told her I'd rather just see her.

She replies "Well I don't want to get lost there by myself".

I tell her to get in touch if she changes her mind and she quickly answers:

"It doesn't bother me, it's up to you".


I'm confused - maybe I shouldn't be, but I don't see what she wants me to do.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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She either doesn't care about having sex with you, or wants you to show that you want her first because she thinks it's your job.

My advice is the same in either case. If there's something you'd already like to do/go to without her, invite her to come. If she doesn't, keep spending your time and thoughts on things you enjoy instead of on her, and move on.
 
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Make a concrete proposal to her!!! You are being very vague, she's waiting on you to lead..

Let's grab a drink at 8pm on Thursday at the do drop in

Anything other than "yes great " move on..

Balls in her court my azz....the balls and the court are yours. Make it happen
 
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