"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Balding problem...

Aerospace

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People, I've got this problem: I'm rapidly losing hair on the front part of my head... I would have shaved my head completely, but my cranium is not shaped simmetrically and I would look horrible...

Do you think having less hair on the head (on the sides I've got lots of hair) is making me a lot less attractive? I'll post pictures soon just to show you my condition.

Make me know what you think.

By now the only temporary solution I found is giving my hair a little more volume using a hair dryer once I wash them... :eek:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Freddy1

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My dad had a balding problem as well. He took all these products to save his hair. Surprisingly he still has some hair on his head. The products can at least slow down the lost of hair. (really its genetic in causes of hairloss)

I know there has been a few hair loss formulas based on something around hormones but at most your grow peach fuzz. You can only slow down the lost. Unless you go for hair transplant which can be expensive.
 

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I'll consider a transplant as soon as I'll actually have a job. I'm relying on my parents to finish my studies and take a degree by now.

Are there any other solutions?
 

Freddy1

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I think there are some products over the market. Some are complete frauds but some do work. At most it will slow down the lost until you get a good job.
My dad still kept a good portion of his hair in his 50's so I would think you could do the same with the products.
 

NorPacWolf

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Talk to a stylist and get his/her recommendation.

Wolf

Aerospace said:
People, I've got this problem: I'm rapidly losing hair on the front part of my head... I would have shaved my head completely, but my cranium is not shaped simmetrically and I would look horrible...

Do you think having less hair on the head (on the sides I've got lots of hair) is making me a lot less attractive? I'll post pictures soon just to show you my condition.

Make me know what you think.

By now the only temporary solution I found is giving my hair a little more volume using a hair dryer once I wash them... :eek:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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NorPacWolf said:
Talk to a stylist and get his/her recommendation.

Wolf
Second that.

There's all sorts of cool hairstyles to mediate that kind of thing. But some $10 barber isn't going to help you.
 

blueguy

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Get on Avodart ASAP. Or at the very least Propecia. Shampoo with Nizoral a few times a week.
 

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Hair cloning will be out, hopefully within 5 years. They say it will be the cure for baldness.

What they do is extract a follicle from the back of your head, a follicle which isn't susceptable to DHT and would not fall out due to male pattern baldness. They then clone that follicle in vitro (in a lab). The cloned follicles are then reimplanted back into your scalp where needed.
 
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