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Bald Guys = Creepy?

ImprovingJuan

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Are there any bald guys in this forum? Have you suffered with the creepiness factor that women attribute to you just because you are bald?

Why are bald men so hated by women? Do they consider it as a disease?
 

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Are there any bald guys in this forum? Have you suffered with the creepiness factor that women attribute to you just because you are bald?

Why are bald men so hated by women? Do they consider it as a disease?
I think bald men are very sexy. Some men look ridiculous with hair.
 

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I cut my hair as short as possible with a trimmer but I am not hairless in the middle, still its so short that my head looks really white and some people that know you ofc wont like it because it is an extreme. Actually, the day before, my sisters boyfriend had to tell me again that I look better with longer hair, but tougher without. My dad always had to tell me what he felt about it, but he gave up cause he has some kind of einstein-look which is easy for me to pick on so it just backfired.

However, several people, mostly men, will tell me that I actually look good with buzz cut. I barely heard anything when I had normal hipster-hair cuts with short on the sides and longer on top. Why it works "ok" for me, (saying "ok" because I am not amazing with women yet so I dont feel like I can say my looks are making my life easy lol) is because my forehead and my headshape is smaller compared to my face. Now, my jaw is weak so it is important for me to grow out a beard to create an illusion. Together with the bald headshape and beard, the overall impression now looks healthier and more in place.

The important thing with being bald or having very little hair is your head shape and beard. You need to have VERY handsome facial features to be able to be bald and clean shaved, this is for 99% of people the chemo-look. The best thing you can hope for is to be bald and grow a nice beard. It takes the attention away from the head also.

A nice tip is to be tanned if you are a bald white guy. You look way healthier, and if you are hairless around the center it looks more forgiving aswell. I would use those melanotan shots if I could find a decent website that sold them that I could trust, would help a lot and save u time instead of constantly be under a sun bed and aging your skin.

As a bald guy you can also afford dressing more daring without it coming across as too much because of a fag hairstyle. People tend to respect you a little bit more imo because you look different than most. But I do agree, you are off the market for some women who have the ideal man in their head. I just happen to love this style so much that I dont care.

So to sum it up:

Bald + beard + tanned, specially if you are very white and on the skinny side and can look a bit sickly + more muscles.
 

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Stupid thread
 

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Some women actually like bald men. A friend of mine only dates bald men. She says she only likes bald men. Some women also don't mind if you have hair or not.
 

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Bald men are people losing hair cause of evolution. In a way, bald people are more "evolved" than people with hair. As regarding to what women find sexy and not, you can do a lot of things about baldness today. If your perception about baldness is that it looks creepy, plant some hair in the areas where you lack them and have hair. If you think it's OK, shave it completely. I think a patchy had might look not nice, that's all.

Personally, I think it's a minor factor for most women anyways.
 

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Bald men with style = not creepy. Bald and chiseled with a bit of a tan is a massive turn on for a lot of ladies.

Bald reeking of insecurity and weirdness = definitely creepy.

It's up to you whether you want to be Moby or Jason Statham
 

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As long as they don't shave their head, flex, ride a bicycle and act like a tough guy, they are no different than men with hair.
 

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If you're bald and not getting any women, it's not because you're bald. There are other factors getting in your way but you're probably attributing it to your baldness.
 

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It doesn't matter. There are plenty of sexy bald men out there. If a woman DNQs you for lack of hair, it's an excuse, she isn't into you.

Besides plenty of men have hair when in their 20s and lose it or lose most of it by their 40s...and I have yet to see an otherwise happy woman dump a man because of baldness after they got together.

Just watch your grooming & fitness & style like you otherwise would and you'll be fine.

It's understandable to be a bit freaked out if the hair starts going. My ex husband has lost much of his (and doesn't have a head that looks good shaved), so he wears what hair he has left cropped quite short and he remains a sexy man who has no trouble meeting women.

He explained it to me that it's a situation that really can challenge a man's self confidence because when you look in the mirror your appearance is changing and it's as though you are witnessing the loss of your looks & your youth. Or at least that's how it feels.

But many women do not care. Work on the other aspects of grooming, keep a style that suits you & be in shape. Baldness is not going to affect you like you think it will.
 

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My girlfriend loves Star Trek and in particular this man.
Kirk was better. :)

I'm fortunate enough to have a full head of hair. But I always think that if I went bald, and shaved off the "crow's nest", it would be my luck to have a bumpy head full of blemishes, like Gorbachev had that birthmark that looked like a big purple map of Poland up there. Kind of spoils the effect you're going for.
 

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Kirk was better. :)

I'm fortunate enough to have a full head of hair. But I always think that if I went bald, and shaved off the "crow's nest", it would be my luck to have a bumpy head full of blemishes, like Gorbachev had that birthmark that looked like a big purple map of Poland up there. Kind of spoils the effect you're going for.
Lolz...my grandfather (mom's side) died with a full head of hair...my dad's dad is not bald either.

I do the bald thing, for fun, once in awhile. It's easy to maintain, and apparently looks good on me.
 

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I seem to recall Espi is bald and likes to slay pornstar milfs with fake jugs.

Though important to care for your appearance, it's weird behaviour that will make you creepy, not a bald head.
 

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I'm rocking a sizeable bald spot on my crown, but the hair around it is cut short.

I'm also in a 5-year dry spell.

I'll leave it at that.
I'd go, full cue ball.
 
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