"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bait and Switch

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I was just reading a guide to getting laid in different countries around the world. Somehow, halfway through the article "getting laid" gets twisted into "partying" i.e. spending time waiting in lines out in the cold at 2am and paying to go into crowded rooms where they sell expensive drinks.

It just seems like a bait and switch to me. The same is often true with online dating. The ads show pictures of happy couples pulling each others clothes off. The reality is people paying to swipe through photos of people they'll never meet.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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bat soup said:
I was just reading a guide to getting laid in different countries around the world. Somehow, halfway through the article "getting laid" gets twisted into "partying" i.e. spending time waiting in lines out in the cold at 2am and paying to go into crowded rooms where they sell expensive drinks.

It just seems like a bait and switch to me. The same is often true with online dating. The ads show pictures of happy couples pulling each others clothes off. The reality is people paying to swipe through photos of people they'll never meet.
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The swipe apps are free, so I'm not sure I understand the analogy. Also, it's pretty easy to get matches/meet girls through swipe apps...how is that bait and switch?
 
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