I'm annoyed now. Had this girl agree to go out with me and she seemed excited. But today I'm talking to her and I find out she has a bf (asked her what she was doing and she said she was going out with her bf because she's busy v-day). WTF! Why'd she accept my offer when she's taken. We're not friends or anything, and she did seem interested. Well, I'm probably just gonna next her. This is starting to get to me, it seems that every girl does this (though it could be because there are very few single girls in my area). Should I next her or what?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Bah, why do girl agree to go out with me when they have boyfriends
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At least this one was honest with you or had buyers regret and came up with this excuse.Kal0051 said:I'm annoyed now. Had this girl agree to go out with me and she seemed excited. But today I'm talking to her and I find out she has a bf (asked her what she was doing and she said she was going out with her bf because she's busy v-day). WTF! Why'd she accept my offer when she's taken. We're not friends or anything, and she did seem interested. Well, I'm probably just gonna next her. This is starting to get to me, it seems that every girl does this (though it could be because there are very few single girls in my area). Should I next her or what?
Fun Fact: Many of the so called single women out there who claims to be single are not single at all.
I say go out with her and bang her, that's what she is only good for. After all she is taken.
Maybe I should add this but her bf seems like a wimp. He's always leaving retarded messages on her fb and until today I had never even heard of him from her. The only reason I thought she had a bf before was because of his messages.
sodbuster
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ALL women are looking to upgrade ALL the time. He's a BF until you show her you are an upgrade.
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"going out" with women is too much effort and probably costs money too. I think it's better to bring them to your place and bang them. If some chic won't come to my place or have me over at hers, then obviously we are not on the same page about where things are going anyway. Time is too precious for "dates".
sodbuster
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Think of it as an audition to see if you are going to be her NeW BF
yeah, I would just treat it as a audition but I don't want to waste my time. Whatever, I'll just go out, flirt, and have fun. If she gives me any indication that she's not interested I'll just make some excuse to leave ("Oh, look at the time, I've got a early morning meeting tomorrow") and delete her contact info.
iqqi
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She did that because she is weak and has no character.
Supposedly this is true of many women. And many men.
Either get what you are gonna get from dipping your toe in that pond, or keep fishing.
Supposedly this is true of many women. And many men.
Either get what you are gonna get from dipping your toe in that pond, or keep fishing.
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I think this is not a good strategy. Think about the chances of success here. You go to something you'd rather not do, then come in with the attitude that you're almost certainly going to feel like bailing.Kal0051 said:yeah, I would just treat it as a audition but I don't want to waste my time. Whatever, I'll just go out, flirt, and have fun. If she gives me any indication that she's not interested I'll just make some excuse to leave ("Oh, look at the time, I've got a early morning meeting tomorrow") and delete her contact info.
I would change the terms of the game entirely. I would bring her into the place and time where I want the meeting to occur. Let her do the bailing if she doesn't like it, why inconveinance yourself?
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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
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The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Coz you're the entertaining monkey! Their BFs don't do anything else with them other than nailing them. The chicks are bored during non-fvcking hours and need more entertainment.Bah, why do girl agree to go out with me when they have boyfriends
You are right about some of them. A few that I went out with complained that their bfs don't ever do anything with them. The funny part is I've slept with a couple of these girls after we've gone out. Yeah, I know they were *****s but I got my rocks off so I couldn't care less (their bfs never knew).Jitterbug said:Coz you're the entertaining monkey! Their BFs don't do anything else with them other than nailing them. The chicks are bored during non-fvcking hours and need more entertainment.