I'm annoyed now. Had this girl agree to go out with me and she seemed excited. But today I'm talking to her and I find out she has a bf (asked her what she was doing and she said she was going out with her bf because she's busy v-day). WTF! Why'd she accept my offer when she's taken. We're not friends or anything, and she did seem interested. Well, I'm probably just gonna next her. This is starting to get to me, it seems that every girl does this (though it could be because there are very few single girls in my area). Should I next her or what?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Bah, why do girl agree to go out with me when they have boyfriends
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
At least this one was honest with you or had buyers regret and came up with this excuse.Kal0051 said:I'm annoyed now. Had this girl agree to go out with me and she seemed excited. But today I'm talking to her and I find out she has a bf (asked her what she was doing and she said she was going out with her bf because she's busy v-day). WTF! Why'd she accept my offer when she's taken. We're not friends or anything, and she did seem interested. Well, I'm probably just gonna next her. This is starting to get to me, it seems that every girl does this (though it could be because there are very few single girls in my area). Should I next her or what?
Fun Fact: Many of the so called single women out there who claims to be single are not single at all.
I say go out with her and bang her, that's what she is only good for. After all she is taken.
Maybe I should add this but her bf seems like a wimp. He's always leaving retarded messages on her fb and until today I had never even heard of him from her. The only reason I thought she had a bf before was because of his messages.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
ALL women are looking to upgrade ALL the time. He's a BF until you show her you are an upgrade.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
everywomanshero
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"going out" with women is too much effort and probably costs money too. I think it's better to bring them to your place and bang them. If some chic won't come to my place or have me over at hers, then obviously we are not on the same page about where things are going anyway. Time is too precious for "dates".
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
Think of it as an audition to see if you are going to be her NeW BF
yeah, I would just treat it as a audition but I don't want to waste my time. Whatever, I'll just go out, flirt, and have fun. If she gives me any indication that she's not interested I'll just make some excuse to leave ("Oh, look at the time, I've got a early morning meeting tomorrow") and delete her contact info.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
She did that because she is weak and has no character.
Supposedly this is true of many women. And many men.
Either get what you are gonna get from dipping your toe in that pond, or keep fishing.
Supposedly this is true of many women. And many men.
Either get what you are gonna get from dipping your toe in that pond, or keep fishing.
everywomanshero
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I think this is not a good strategy. Think about the chances of success here. You go to something you'd rather not do, then come in with the attitude that you're almost certainly going to feel like bailing.Kal0051 said:yeah, I would just treat it as a audition but I don't want to waste my time. Whatever, I'll just go out, flirt, and have fun. If she gives me any indication that she's not interested I'll just make some excuse to leave ("Oh, look at the time, I've got a early morning meeting tomorrow") and delete her contact info.
I would change the terms of the game entirely. I would bring her into the place and time where I want the meeting to occur. Let her do the bailing if she doesn't like it, why inconveinance yourself?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Coz you're the entertaining monkey! Their BFs don't do anything else with them other than nailing them. The chicks are bored during non-fvcking hours and need more entertainment.Bah, why do girl agree to go out with me when they have boyfriends
You are right about some of them. A few that I went out with complained that their bfs don't ever do anything with them. The funny part is I've slept with a couple of these girls after we've gone out. Yeah, I know they were *****s but I got my rocks off so I couldn't care less (their bfs never knew).Jitterbug said:Coz you're the entertaining monkey! Their BFs don't do anything else with them other than nailing them. The chicks are bored during non-fvcking hours and need more entertainment.