Bah, my vent i guess.

[Nivek]

So theres this girl that I like. Lets call her Mary. So we talk off and on from time to time, nothing real close but friendly. The prom is coming up so I asked her and she says yes. So now we're going to the prom together but things between us seem really awkward. We can be talking but it doesn't seem like a fun natural conversation. We're connecting on some stuff but it just feels weird. I think my lack of experience is a major factor to this. Maybe shes nervous and with my nervousness combined makes it 10x worse. So i dunno, I guess i want suggestion from the board. I know i'm AFC as hell right now, trying to get out of it but its damn hard. I'm a really shy guy. I guess at times i don't know what to say to a girl, yes i've read the posts about conversations and how one should always be asking questions to delve deeper into the girl. I do that but it doesn't seem really fun. Maybe to learn some c+f or something. Also what do you people talk about? i mean i can't talk about her all the time? like i like the shirt or so nice day (not like i say that but..) yeah. so yeah haha i'm probably gonna get a reply to tell me to read the dj bible again. I think i need to so i just might. But since i typed all of this i'll post it. Sry for my rambling at the end.

-Nivek (on his road to recovery)

 

[dastal]

if shes nervous, C&F will make it worse. try the kino. its a lot easier than you think. Joke around a bit.

 

[LikRetsam]

Blah blah blah.

You made a date for an approach. What are you supposed to do? Hold off all sexual contact until that date? Get to it.

 

[Jerky Boi]

She's just as nervous as you are. That's the only reason why it doesn't feel natural. You need to open up a bit, use some kino, and make a connection.