"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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BadmAnnaz 40HB Approach Journal ;-)

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Badmannaz

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:crazy: :crazy: great day!!

okay i wake up this morning feeling good and confident....go off to my schooling to do "what i have to do" 1st class the girl i didn't approach the "***** n me" came out...she looked like she was slowing down so she could talk to me but i chickened out....but at the same time my mindset was on the fVckn "Dream Girl" aka DG for now on...so we go into class then out...i see her in the cafateria reading looking so fVcking hot i swear my legs felt extremely weak....the thing is i've talked to her once with positive results so why would i still be nervous??

I built up enough courage because i've decided there's no holding back lets go...

BM: Hey wassup? (pulled up a chair from other table)
DG (smiles) hey wassup
BM: wat ya doing?
DG nothing just reading
BM: Wow that book is long (sounding stupid)
DG(girlie giggle) yea i guess so...so how did you do on the stock project??
BM: Blah blah blah (small talk)

time goes...and then...

BM: so what do you do out of school
DG: (girlie giggle) oh just work n hanging out with my girls or my family
BM: O so you never do anything with your boyfriend??
DG:I don't have one (she said it in another way)

Time went on...i built up more courage

BM: so wassup can i get a number??
DG (girlie giggle) yea Definatly


i can't believe this still....i only thought this happened in movies but...i just pulled a what i am now calling an HB10 as a total package i got the # close i actually got another # close but i'm typing this in a hurry so i will post it later and i will edit this also but i wanted to put this up to let it b known....:up:
 
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