Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
nice job closing
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
BadmAnnaz 40HB Approach Journal ;-)
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Badmannaz
Master Don Juan
:crazy: :crazy: great day!!
okay i wake up this morning feeling good and confident....go off to my schooling to do "what i have to do" 1st class the girl i didn't approach the "***** n me" came out...she looked like she was slowing down so she could talk to me but i chickened out....but at the same time my mindset was on the fVckn "Dream Girl" aka DG for now on...so we go into class then out...i see her in the cafateria reading looking so fVcking hot i swear my legs felt extremely weak....the thing is i've talked to her once with positive results so why would i still be nervous??
I built up enough courage because i've decided there's no holding back lets go...
BM: Hey wassup? (pulled up a chair from other table)
DG (smiles) hey wassup
BM: wat ya doing?
DG nothing just reading
BM: Wow that book is long (sounding stupid)
DG(girlie giggle) yea i guess so...so how did you do on the stock project??
BM: Blah blah blah (small talk)
time goes...and then...
BM: so what do you do out of school
DG: (girlie giggle) oh just work n hanging out with my girls or my family
BM: O so you never do anything with your boyfriend??
DG:I don't have one (she said it in another way)
Time went on...i built up more courage
BM: so wassup can i get a number??
DG (girlie giggle) yea Definatly
i can't believe this still....i only thought this happened in movies but...i just pulled a what i am now calling an HB10 as a total package i got the # close i actually got another # close but i'm typing this in a hurry so i will post it later and i will edit this also but i wanted to put this up to let it b known....
okay i wake up this morning feeling good and confident....go off to my schooling to do "what i have to do" 1st class the girl i didn't approach the "***** n me" came out...she looked like she was slowing down so she could talk to me but i chickened out....but at the same time my mindset was on the fVckn "Dream Girl" aka DG for now on...so we go into class then out...i see her in the cafateria reading looking so fVcking hot i swear my legs felt extremely weak....the thing is i've talked to her once with positive results so why would i still be nervous??
I built up enough courage because i've decided there's no holding back lets go...
BM: Hey wassup? (pulled up a chair from other table)
DG (smiles) hey wassup
BM: wat ya doing?
DG nothing just reading
BM: Wow that book is long (sounding stupid)
DG(girlie giggle) yea i guess so...so how did you do on the stock project??
BM: Blah blah blah (small talk)
time goes...and then...
BM: so what do you do out of school
DG: (girlie giggle) oh just work n hanging out with my girls or my family
BM: O so you never do anything with your boyfriend??
DG:I don't have one (she said it in another way)
Time went on...i built up more courage
BM: so wassup can i get a number??
DG (girlie giggle) yea Definatly
i can't believe this still....i only thought this happened in movies but...i just pulled a what i am now calling an HB10 as a total package i got the # close i actually got another # close but i'm typing this in a hurry so i will post it later and i will edit this also but i wanted to put this up to let it b known....