Okay so basically theres this girl who 15 but will be 16 in like a month or so, well shes known as a slut by a lot of people in our school. Well I'm 18 and she got ahold of me and I we had sex twice. Well I really dont care for her but she wont leave me alone and calls a couple times a day though most of the time I dont answer. Well this morning at 1am I get a call on my cell and it says private but i answered and it was some girl saying she was this girl and that her vagina was burning and that she thinks shes pregnant and that she told her parents and that she wants me to come over right away to be with her thru the night and take her to the hospital to get checked out the next day. Well I sneak out of my house and get in my car and head to her house, I pull in the drive way and get out and turns out that this girl was at her friends house across the street from her house and wanted to know what the hell I was doin there showin up at her house at 1am. Well I told her about the call and turns out someone was ****in with me the whole time and that the girl was fine. So after all that I go home. But she was like"you must really care about me for rushing down here and all" but I really dont know whos behind this ****ed up prank call but I know it wasnt her for sure and I have no clue who could have done it. But the next day(today) she calls and said her parents wanted to know what that red car(mine) was doin in their driveway that late-so she said she told them about what I told her(the whole prank call thing) and that I thought she was pregnant and they were like"why would he think you were pregnant". Her dads really strict about stuff that and although her mom knew she wasnt a virgin she said her mom made her tell her dad that shes been havin sex. She said her dads asking about me(but none of them know where I live). The girl says shes not goin to tell him anything about me but I dont want this to turn into anything-since shes currently 15 so itd be statutory rape. But I dont even wanna see her again and I sure as hell wont have sex with her again. Another thing is they live right across from m Air Force recruiter. BTW now its the night after and I just got another prank call from the same girl who called again-and she wont tell me who it is. But what should I do? I just want this to be done but Im kinda scared that if I just cut her off she'll get mad and say sumthing like I raped her or they'll call the cops and charge me with statutory rape.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Bad situation!
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
why not use the your father scares me tactic and act all paranoid with her. Really put on a show. Act like a total AFC loser and she'll drop you quick.
I guess that might work. But how about just completely ignoring her-never answering or anything. Her father shouldnt be able to get ahold of me since she doesnt even know where I live but I dont know if they'll say sumthing to my recruiter. You guys think I have anything to be worried about?
Dude, I seriously think MacDiddy hit the nail on the head here. Ignoring her is only going to make her pine over you and once that doesnt work for her, she's gonna be out for revenge. Buy her some flowers and write her some love poetry, and act like a douche to the best of your abilities.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
Who cares!! but you need to act utterly paranoid in front of her like you're going crazy.. till she thinks your going crazy.. she might be a nut, but she's not gonna hang with one..You guys think Im kinda paranoid thinking
Its hard work, but look on the bright side.. you might enjoy this charade...