Okay so basically theres this girl who 15 but will be 16 in like a month or so, well shes known as a slut by a lot of people in our school. Well I'm 18 and she got ahold of me and I we had sex twice. Well I really dont care for her but she wont leave me alone and calls a couple times a day though most of the time I dont answer. Well this morning at 1am I get a call on my cell and it says private but i answered and it was some girl saying she was this girl and that her vagina was burning and that she thinks shes pregnant and that she told her parents and that she wants me to come over right away to be with her thru the night and take her to the hospital to get checked out the next day. Well I sneak out of my house and get in my car and head to her house, I pull in the drive way and get out and turns out that this girl was at her friends house across the street from her house and wanted to know what the hell I was doin there showin up at her house at 1am. Well I told her about the call and turns out someone was ****in with me the whole time and that the girl was fine. So after all that I go home. But she was like"you must really care about me for rushing down here and all" but I really dont know whos behind this ****ed up prank call but I know it wasnt her for sure and I have no clue who could have done it. But the next day(today) she calls and said her parents wanted to know what that red car(mine) was doin in their driveway that late-so she said she told them about what I told her(the whole prank call thing) and that I thought she was pregnant and they were like"why would he think you were pregnant". Her dads really strict about stuff that and although her mom knew she wasnt a virgin she said her mom made her tell her dad that shes been havin sex. She said her dads asking about me(but none of them know where I live). The girl says shes not goin to tell him anything about me but I dont want this to turn into anything-since shes currently 15 so itd be statutory rape. But I dont even wanna see her again and I sure as hell wont have sex with her again. Another thing is they live right across from m Air Force recruiter. BTW now its the night after and I just got another prank call from the same girl who called again-and she wont tell me who it is. But what should I do? I just want this to be done but Im kinda scared that if I just cut her off she'll get mad and say sumthing like I raped her or they'll call the cops and charge me with statutory rape.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Bad situation!
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
why not use the your father scares me tactic and act all paranoid with her. Really put on a show. Act like a total AFC loser and she'll drop you quick.
I guess that might work. But how about just completely ignoring her-never answering or anything. Her father shouldnt be able to get ahold of me since she doesnt even know where I live but I dont know if they'll say sumthing to my recruiter. You guys think I have anything to be worried about?
Dude, I seriously think MacDiddy hit the nail on the head here. Ignoring her is only going to make her pine over you and once that doesnt work for her, she's gonna be out for revenge. Buy her some flowers and write her some love poetry, and act like a douche to the best of your abilities.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
Who cares!! but you need to act utterly paranoid in front of her like you're going crazy.. till she thinks your going crazy.. she might be a nut, but she's not gonna hang with one..You guys think Im kinda paranoid thinking
Its hard work, but look on the bright side.. you might enjoy this charade...