"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bad sex, what do I do

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I met a 29 year old married girl online, talked to her on the phone for 2 days and had sex with her Friday night. I went over to her house and we had to do in on the floor behind the sofa so that her kids did not see us in case they work up. She is # 21 now on my list. Unfortunately for me, I did not have a good session sex wise. I am usually extremely good but this was not one of those times. It is not the first time this happens though. She did give me some compliments about how thick my thing is and she told me not to worry about it. But still.

I want to continue having sex with her but do not know if I should call her or not. I dont want a relationship but I do want another chance at reediming myself. lol. When I talked to her on the first day, she told me that she hated guys who were needy and that she had a good vibe that I was not. I had sex with her 2 days later. So I dont want to come off as needy. I told her that all I wanted was to have sex. she understood. She has not called me back but then again she also told me the first time we talked that she does not like to talk to guys unless she wants to have sex. I am the 4th guy that she has had sex with. Please advice on next move. I am talking to other girls at the moment. Again, my main objective is to make sure that she knows I am not a lousy xxxx and that Friday was an anomaly.
Thanks!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SmoothTalker

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Well first, stop having sex with married cheating *****s with multiple kids. Are there no quality women around?


For your actual question though, hard to say. If your arrangement is based purely on sex and the sex you gave her sucked, there's not much there to attract her. All you could do is really blow her mind if you do get another chance.
 
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wow you need to get better options.
 
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sounds like a blessing in disguise to me!
 
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Ask her out on another date. Then, get her in the mood and say you know the other night I was off so get ready for this!!

Or act like nothin happend and prove to her how good you are without words.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dude... nothing good ever happens when you mess around with married women... especially when she has kids...

Come on man... don't make us slap you!
 
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Mr Autobahn said:
Dude... nothing good ever happens when you mess around with married women... especially when she has kids...

Come on man... don't make us slap you!
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lmao but it pretty much sums up my thoughts...but if all she wants is sex you may need sumthing else to make her come back
 
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