"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I've noticed lately I have poor posture when walking.

I seem to arch forwards slightly, as if i have a bend in my body. I'm not sure if this is a recent phenomena or something i have always done.

If its recent, its possibly a result of the gym, now when i try and correct myself, I almost feel there is some resistance in the muscles in my lower back, as if they’re pushing against me when I try to straighten completely, if that makes sense. Could it be due to the increased mass?

anyone else experienced anything similar, any ideas?

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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now diablo has kindly reopened this, does anyone else have any idea?

I should of said i searched about posture, but a lot of the replies are more about good body language.; than specificly poor posture.

maybet hats all it is; poor body language, but I still wonder if it may be a result of the gym?
 
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