"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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zerocelcius

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I got a message from a girl that said we were 100% compatible. I never met a girl off the net before so I thought about it. I figured what the hell if it was bad I would just say "I had to get back to my community service."

I met her and was surprised in a good way. We were very compatible. And I was actually glad we had met....was...

She invited me over after work after 2 weeks of talking and hanging out. No big deal. She lives in apartments were you have to get buzzed in. I went to the sub entry and waited for her to reply. NO Reply... NO big deal I left. I din't want her to think I didn't show up so I called the next day. She wasn't there but some other girl answered the phone.

I called back two days later and same thing. That night there was a fire in some buildings in her area. I called to see if she was alright and see if it was her building. It was the next block but she seemed tired so I kept it breif. The next day I called her cause I wanted to get my stuff from her place...(bought a movie we never watched and I wanted to watch the damn thing). So I called to see if I could come get it, and she blew up on me.

!!!!!!!!!!

I mean pshyco ****.. She was screaming and saying she would have my **** ready for me and if I wanted to be like that than FINE!!!

Well that isn't how I said it or ment it, but after that explostion it was. I came to her place and she tried to play it off and act cool and sweet and said she was sick and tried to get sympathy.

I got my movie and the other movies I brought by and left. I havn't talked to her or will again.

BUT I am blown away by how much of a BEACH she was. It was a complete blow up and totally freaked me out. I was actually afraid to be near her after that.

Has anybody else came across this kinda stuff, or have you heard of anything like this?

PS> I kinda think she may be an addict and got all tweaked out or somthing. She accused me of crasy **** like trying to control her or ask her hella questions. And all I said was "hey I stoped by the other day but I missed you", and "I am going to pick up that movie."

???!!!!!!!!!????

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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Luveno

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She's nuts. Avoid her from now on.
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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Welcome to my hell lol. You just described the majority of girls in my area. But they're psycho is different ways. Well obviously avoid this girl like you're already doing. Better luck next time.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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justsomeguy1984

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that is why you should stay away from internet dating. even if a chick is really hot or seems really nice. if they are so hot then why do they have to use the internet to find a date?? it's either because they are psycho or they are just extremely b!tchy. I used the internet to meet a girl once. She was totally hot (about a 9) and we had alot in common. Everything started out ok, but gradually i began to see that she was actually a complete psycho. Never again will i use internet dating sites.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Well, what do you expect. You got a message from her saying that you were 100% compatible. In her eyes you were.

So the question is what did you do to qualify her?
 

zerocelcius

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Francisco d'Anconia

I don't understand what you mean by "qualify"? If you mean What did I use to judge her? I didn't until I met her, than I took it as it came. This may be way away from what you meant but I don't pre-judge people and I don't expect anything ever. SO I met her only to do it really. I had never met a girl from the net and thought what the hell.

I am curious about what you meant by qualify, please explain.
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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Originally posted by justsomeguy1984
that is why you should stay away from internet dating. even if a chick is really hot or seems really nice. if they are so hot then why do they have to use the internet to find a date?? it's either because they are psycho or they are just extremely b!tchy. I used the internet to meet a girl once. She was totally hot (about a 9) and we had alot in common. Everything started out ok, but gradually i began to see that she was actually a complete psycho. Never again will i use internet dating sites.

There are PLENTY of these kinds of women when you meet them in person. So what? You and he just happened to meet them on the internet. I've read countless stories of these kinds of women from encounters outside the internet.
 

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Most of the ones I've met offline from the internet have either been overweight, drama queen/psycho b*tches, or a combination of both. To meet a good quality girl online ain't easy.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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