"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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zerocelcius

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I got a message from a girl that said we were 100% compatible. I never met a girl off the net before so I thought about it. I figured what the hell if it was bad I would just say "I had to get back to my community service."

I met her and was surprised in a good way. We were very compatible. And I was actually glad we had met....was...

She invited me over after work after 2 weeks of talking and hanging out. No big deal. She lives in apartments were you have to get buzzed in. I went to the sub entry and waited for her to reply. NO Reply... NO big deal I left. I din't want her to think I didn't show up so I called the next day. She wasn't there but some other girl answered the phone.

I called back two days later and same thing. That night there was a fire in some buildings in her area. I called to see if she was alright and see if it was her building. It was the next block but she seemed tired so I kept it breif. The next day I called her cause I wanted to get my stuff from her place...(bought a movie we never watched and I wanted to watch the damn thing). So I called to see if I could come get it, and she blew up on me.

!!!!!!!!!!

I mean pshyco ****.. She was screaming and saying she would have my **** ready for me and if I wanted to be like that than FINE!!!

Well that isn't how I said it or ment it, but after that explostion it was. I came to her place and she tried to play it off and act cool and sweet and said she was sick and tried to get sympathy.

I got my movie and the other movies I brought by and left. I havn't talked to her or will again.

BUT I am blown away by how much of a BEACH she was. It was a complete blow up and totally freaked me out. I was actually afraid to be near her after that.

Has anybody else came across this kinda stuff, or have you heard of anything like this?

PS> I kinda think she may be an addict and got all tweaked out or somthing. She accused me of crasy **** like trying to control her or ask her hella questions. And all I said was "hey I stoped by the other day but I missed you", and "I am going to pick up that movie."

???!!!!!!!!!????

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Luveno

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She's nuts. Avoid her from now on.
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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Welcome to my hell lol. You just described the majority of girls in my area. But they're psycho is different ways. Well obviously avoid this girl like you're already doing. Better luck next time.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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that is why you should stay away from internet dating. even if a chick is really hot or seems really nice. if they are so hot then why do they have to use the internet to find a date?? it's either because they are psycho or they are just extremely b!tchy. I used the internet to meet a girl once. She was totally hot (about a 9) and we had alot in common. Everything started out ok, but gradually i began to see that she was actually a complete psycho. Never again will i use internet dating sites.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Well, what do you expect. You got a message from her saying that you were 100% compatible. In her eyes you were.

So the question is what did you do to qualify her?
 

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Francisco d'Anconia

I don't understand what you mean by "qualify"? If you mean What did I use to judge her? I didn't until I met her, than I took it as it came. This may be way away from what you meant but I don't pre-judge people and I don't expect anything ever. SO I met her only to do it really. I had never met a girl from the net and thought what the hell.

I am curious about what you meant by qualify, please explain.
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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Originally posted by justsomeguy1984
that is why you should stay away from internet dating. even if a chick is really hot or seems really nice. if they are so hot then why do they have to use the internet to find a date?? it's either because they are psycho or they are just extremely b!tchy. I used the internet to meet a girl once. She was totally hot (about a 9) and we had alot in common. Everything started out ok, but gradually i began to see that she was actually a complete psycho. Never again will i use internet dating sites.

There are PLENTY of these kinds of women when you meet them in person. So what? You and he just happened to meet them on the internet. I've read countless stories of these kinds of women from encounters outside the internet.
 

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Most of the ones I've met offline from the internet have either been overweight, drama queen/psycho b*tches, or a combination of both. To meet a good quality girl online ain't easy.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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