"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bad move by the mods: Moving Lefty's thread [Merged threads]

azanon

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paradox said:
There is only one rule for this forum. How hard is this to follow?
Apparently, too difficult for some. The main guy arguing with you now doesn't even have his age by his name either.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You're 35 and she is 19? Quite a difference. Someone's emotional maturity must be in question.
 

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azanon said:
Apparently, too difficult for some. The main guy arguing with you now doesn't even have his age by his name either.
Half the posts in THIS topic don't have an age on them. :crackup:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Thanks Paradox

We get on the mods a lot (well, I have at times) but don't praise them enough. Thanks Paradox for moving it back, well done!

Also, I totally agree with alone time for Lefty. That's huge!

Solitude is underrated in this world.
 
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