"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bad move by the mods: Moving Lefty's thread [Merged threads]

azanon

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paradox said:
There is only one rule for this forum. How hard is this to follow?
Apparently, too difficult for some. The main guy arguing with you now doesn't even have his age by his name either.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You're 35 and she is 19? Quite a difference. Someone's emotional maturity must be in question.
 

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azanon said:
Apparently, too difficult for some. The main guy arguing with you now doesn't even have his age by his name either.
Half the posts in THIS topic don't have an age on them. :crackup:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Thanks Paradox

We get on the mods a lot (well, I have at times) but don't praise them enough. Thanks Paradox for moving it back, well done!

Also, I totally agree with alone time for Lefty. That's huge!

Solitude is underrated in this world.
 
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