"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bad headaches/migraines after track practice

youngmack

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This is my first time ever running track and I have been to two practices so far but after both practices I have gotten a bad headache after. I even took a Tylenol before practice today and I still have a banging headache. I do have a history of getting migraines when I was younger but I never found out the causes. I am leaning towards not getting enough sleep.


I think I am drinking enough water but I am not so sure. Any ideas? Is this normal? Do I just have to get used to the intense workout in the sun?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TheStig

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If you've only got 2 practices in your entire life under your belt, I'd say for now keep at it. You probably just aren't used to intense physical activity in the sun like you said. Drinking more water every day and during practice would be helpful.

But if you go through half or all of the season, and still have these issues, there could be something else that you'd want to get checked out.
 

XMinister

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Are you able to breath clearly? Lack of oxygen is usually the culprit. Lack of water or air. It seems like you're drinking well. Lack of minerals (sodium, magnesium, potassium) is another possibility. Finally, if you're not eating enough. Not enough fuel can cause that as well.
 

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^ yup.exertion headache.its grouped as an indomethacin responsive headache.mild and harmless. look it up on wiki.

take some indomethacin and the pain will def go away :D
If u r so worried tat u mite sh1t ur pants at walmart then visit an OMF surgeon.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Create Reality

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Don't stress yourself physically without the proper BASE of nutrition and relaxation.
 
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