Yea, you know u gotta quit them. For example I have been smoking for about 2 years and jackin off for *cough* since like 13. Went 4 days w/o smoking, and its been surprizingly smooth. Now jerking off is a different story... wow this **** is HARD. I want to stop for 3 weeks, I tell ya'll about my progress haha. What about you guys? As men we should be overcoming obstacles and improving ourselves constantly.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Quit smoking is a good thing todo, quiting jerking off is alright as long as your ejaculating some other way through sex. If you want to go 3 weeks with out ejaculating your sex drive will plumet!
Maybe he has so much sex drive that he doesn't get out of the house to jerk off all day?Seismos said:
I do know that jerking off helps to keep oneitis away if you are just having sex with one gal. Which you shouldnt, but anyways.
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If you can call your battles with the cyclops habitual, then yeah, you probably do need to cut back. I used to bite my nails, and it left them nasty looking. So 1 day I just decided to stop, and I haven't bit them for months. I clip them like every 2 days though now, but it's not biting 
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."She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Ive read a bunch of stuff on the benefits on stopping jerking off: i tried it. Matter fact, i tried it a couple of times, and never went over 5 days haha. And the thing is, by the third day my testosterone levels are through the roof, i become an animal pretty much.