"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bad Grade Embarrassment

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There's this really cute girl in my English class who has been giving me little smiles every now and then, and I've been waiting for a chance to talk to her. But today we took a vocabulary test that I did VERY poorly on, we then exchanged the tests, and guess who got to grade mine... Needless to say I was mortified, the first impression she had of me was a terrible test grade. She seems to care a lot about her schoolwork, which is why I'm so concerned that this might make her lose interest in me.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Daddy The Pimp

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W H A T A F U C K I N G C H U M P ! ! ! ! !

You got a lot to learn mofo, a lot to learn.


If you felt bad about it, she felt bad about it.
If you didn't give a sh1t, she wouldn't give a sh1t.

People react to you based on your reactions.

Also, if you were sarging hardcore (like you're supposed to be, if you wanna become good in this sh1t), you wouldn't have time to think for this kind of sh1t. You would just screen out little things like this one.
 

eaglez1177

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Wow...yea I def agree this is extreme over analyzation and totally irrelevant. Just grow a pair and talk to her stop worrying about your grades making a bad impression.
 

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plus why are you getting bad grades? its not like school is hard or anything, and grades are actually more important than her right now. really if you can't even keep your grades up, you got bigger problems than girls right now. focus on paying attention in school first. im not saying become a nerd and start caring more about grades than a social life, or that theyre more important, even. im saying if you cant even keep at least C's or higher youre most likely gonna have problems getting girls also, especially the smart ones as she seems. get it together. both of those things are easy.
 

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TheEnergizer said:
grades are actually more important than her right now.

yes. high school is easy. a cake walk. you need to be beasting on pretty much everything, straight a's. my intellect in high school was where my confidence came from. in any situation that there was a possibility of failure, i ALWAYS knew i had my stellar gpa to fall back on. sports teams, class elections, getting girls, etc. get your sh1t together man. plus, it's just one girl. who cares really what she thinks?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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