"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Bad Grade Embarrassment

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There's this really cute girl in my English class who has been giving me little smiles every now and then, and I've been waiting for a chance to talk to her. But today we took a vocabulary test that I did VERY poorly on, we then exchanged the tests, and guess who got to grade mine... Needless to say I was mortified, the first impression she had of me was a terrible test grade. She seems to care a lot about her schoolwork, which is why I'm so concerned that this might make her lose interest in me.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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W H A T A F U C K I N G C H U M P ! ! ! ! !

You got a lot to learn mofo, a lot to learn.


If you felt bad about it, she felt bad about it.
If you didn't give a sh1t, she wouldn't give a sh1t.

People react to you based on your reactions.

Also, if you were sarging hardcore (like you're supposed to be, if you wanna become good in this sh1t), you wouldn't have time to think for this kind of sh1t. You would just screen out little things like this one.
 

eaglez1177

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Wow...yea I def agree this is extreme over analyzation and totally irrelevant. Just grow a pair and talk to her stop worrying about your grades making a bad impression.
 

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plus why are you getting bad grades? its not like school is hard or anything, and grades are actually more important than her right now. really if you can't even keep your grades up, you got bigger problems than girls right now. focus on paying attention in school first. im not saying become a nerd and start caring more about grades than a social life, or that theyre more important, even. im saying if you cant even keep at least C's or higher youre most likely gonna have problems getting girls also, especially the smart ones as she seems. get it together. both of those things are easy.
 

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TheEnergizer said:
grades are actually more important than her right now.

yes. high school is easy. a cake walk. you need to be beasting on pretty much everything, straight a's. my intellect in high school was where my confidence came from. in any situation that there was a possibility of failure, i ALWAYS knew i had my stellar gpa to fall back on. sports teams, class elections, getting girls, etc. get your sh1t together man. plus, it's just one girl. who cares really what she thinks?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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