"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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bad girls, good boys?

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girl i know just broke up with her boyfriend- the thing is is that she has always been a girl who hooksup with alotta guys and done alot of stuff- however her boyfriend for nine months was actually not a nerd but a real nice guy, like they fought alot and everything cuase he was ver protective and she flirts alot, but he always complemented her and when the broke up she cried herself to sleep for 2 weeks she said, she claims to be in love with him even though shes seventeen- this same girl use to like me a whileback but this was before i started this site and i use to pay her all kinds of attention and compliment her and share our secrets and gay sh*t like that, so are there exceptions to all this stuff and is this one of them- i have noticed this wiht atleast one other girl
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I think like-people tend to find eachother in life.

Of course, there a examples of some "bad" girls exploiting nice guys. But in general, people tend to end up with people that are like themselves.

Uglies with uglies, fatties with fatties, nerds with nerds, hotties with studs, depressed with depressed, losers with losers, etc.
 

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Uglies with uglies, fatties with fatties, nerds with nerds, hotties with studs, depressed with depressed, losers with losers, etc.
As funny as this sounds, I think it's true from what I've seen.
 

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Originally posted by Tazman
As funny as this sounds, I think it's true from what I've seen.
I'll take this moment to also point out that this is also a very good reason to improve YOURSELF, because that determines what kind of people you attract.
 

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Originally posted by RaWBLooD
most people are a bit more 3 dimensional.
Yeah, and like I have time to break down everyone's individual characteristics. Remember to keep it simple, stupid! :up:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Tazman
As funny as this sounds, I think it's true from what I've seen.
Yeah this would have to be true. People get on best with those who go in the same circles as they do. Hate to admit it but having things in common with somebody is what makes relationships work
 
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speaking strictly from a physical perspective... they have done studies showing that when people are shown pictures of people of the opposite sex and ask which ones they would most likely date, they usually choose ones that are rated on the same level physical-appearance-wise as themselves. i.e. an HB 7 chooses a dude on level 7. although obviously, in real life other factors come into play.
 

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Originally posted by italostud
I think like-people tend to find eachother in life.

Of course, there a examples of some "bad" girls exploiting nice guys. But in general, people tend to end up with people that are like themselves.

Uglies with uglies, fatties with fatties, nerds with nerds, hotties with studs, depressed with depressed, losers with losers, etc.
Maybe like themselves, mentally. Your statements about ugly, fat, and hot people is wayyyy off. Isn't this whole website based on teaching fugly dudes to get hot chicks (haha). Then there is the whole opposites attract way of going about things. I don't really think that there is a formula that it goes by. If a person makes you feel good, then you are going to like them regardless. Looks don't matter, as long as they make you feel good. Hell, PERSONALITY DOESN'T MATTER as long as they make you feel good. How you feel is what directs your actions.
 

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Originally posted by italostud
I think like-people tend to find eachother in life.

Of course, there a examples of some "bad" girls exploiting nice guys. But in general, people tend to end up with people that are like themselves.

Uglies with uglies, fatties with fatties, nerds with nerds, hotties with studs, depressed with depressed, losers with losers, etc.
SIMILIS SIMULARIS SOLVENTUR
 
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