"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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girl i know just broke up with her boyfriend- the thing is is that she has always been a girl who hooksup with alotta guys and done alot of stuff- however her boyfriend for nine months was actually not a nerd but a real nice guy, like they fought alot and everything cuase he was ver protective and she flirts alot, but he always complemented her and when the broke up she cried herself to sleep for 2 weeks she said, she claims to be in love with him even though shes seventeen- this same girl use to like me a whileback but this was before i started this site and i use to pay her all kinds of attention and compliment her and share our secrets and gay sh*t like that, so are there exceptions to all this stuff and is this one of them- i have noticed this wiht atleast one other girl
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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italostud

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I think like-people tend to find eachother in life.

Of course, there a examples of some "bad" girls exploiting nice guys. But in general, people tend to end up with people that are like themselves.

Uglies with uglies, fatties with fatties, nerds with nerds, hotties with studs, depressed with depressed, losers with losers, etc.
 

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Uglies with uglies, fatties with fatties, nerds with nerds, hotties with studs, depressed with depressed, losers with losers, etc.
As funny as this sounds, I think it's true from what I've seen.
 

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Originally posted by Tazman
As funny as this sounds, I think it's true from what I've seen.
I'll take this moment to also point out that this is also a very good reason to improve YOURSELF, because that determines what kind of people you attract.
 

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Originally posted by RaWBLooD
most people are a bit more 3 dimensional.
Yeah, and like I have time to break down everyone's individual characteristics. Remember to keep it simple, stupid! :up:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Tazman
As funny as this sounds, I think it's true from what I've seen.
Yeah this would have to be true. People get on best with those who go in the same circles as they do. Hate to admit it but having things in common with somebody is what makes relationships work
 
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speaking strictly from a physical perspective... they have done studies showing that when people are shown pictures of people of the opposite sex and ask which ones they would most likely date, they usually choose ones that are rated on the same level physical-appearance-wise as themselves. i.e. an HB 7 chooses a dude on level 7. although obviously, in real life other factors come into play.
 

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Originally posted by italostud
I think like-people tend to find eachother in life.

Of course, there a examples of some "bad" girls exploiting nice guys. But in general, people tend to end up with people that are like themselves.

Uglies with uglies, fatties with fatties, nerds with nerds, hotties with studs, depressed with depressed, losers with losers, etc.
Maybe like themselves, mentally. Your statements about ugly, fat, and hot people is wayyyy off. Isn't this whole website based on teaching fugly dudes to get hot chicks (haha). Then there is the whole opposites attract way of going about things. I don't really think that there is a formula that it goes by. If a person makes you feel good, then you are going to like them regardless. Looks don't matter, as long as they make you feel good. Hell, PERSONALITY DOESN'T MATTER as long as they make you feel good. How you feel is what directs your actions.
 

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Originally posted by italostud
I think like-people tend to find eachother in life.

Of course, there a examples of some "bad" girls exploiting nice guys. But in general, people tend to end up with people that are like themselves.

Uglies with uglies, fatties with fatties, nerds with nerds, hotties with studs, depressed with depressed, losers with losers, etc.
SIMILIS SIMULARIS SOLVENTUR
 
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