"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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bad girl poblem, need advice

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hi, ive known this girl for over 6 months and the situation is very complicated. I first met her through a friend and we immediately clicked, however my best firend had a crush on her and they were really friendly with eachother. I tried to stay away from her for that reason but i kept meeting her while i was out and i got that 'buzz' while i was around her. A while later i was at a party, she was drunk, i was a bit.. She ended up getting off with some younger guy and she then admitted to liking me in a conversation later that night. Being a loyal friend i tried to dissmiss her by using the fact that she got off with a guy as an excuse.

later i found out my friend didnt like her anymore so.. i now wanted her.. badly. Unfortunately i didnt see her much anymore and talking to her was a probem. Then one night... in drunkiness i seen her, and clever old me thought it was a good idea to ask her out.. it got messy there. Anyway does anyone have any idea after all this time how to get her back? i really cant think of anything short of looking desperate
 

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/me gropes around. Starts panicking.... Sweat drips from every pore... Starts missing heart beats... Finds the glass... lifts it... hits the red button:

EJECT
 

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Stay away for a while, change yourself and read the post by player_supreme. i think? on getting out of friend zone.

6 months, too long buddy, i reckon your chance will have gone unless she is a real persistant girl.

Remember alls fair in love and war, if your mate has a crush on her and so do you, why does he get priority, scope it out with him and basically say fair dos to whoever gets her first next time.
 
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