"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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bad girl poblem, need advice

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hi, ive known this girl for over 6 months and the situation is very complicated. I first met her through a friend and we immediately clicked, however my best firend had a crush on her and they were really friendly with eachother. I tried to stay away from her for that reason but i kept meeting her while i was out and i got that 'buzz' while i was around her. A while later i was at a party, she was drunk, i was a bit.. She ended up getting off with some younger guy and she then admitted to liking me in a conversation later that night. Being a loyal friend i tried to dissmiss her by using the fact that she got off with a guy as an excuse.

later i found out my friend didnt like her anymore so.. i now wanted her.. badly. Unfortunately i didnt see her much anymore and talking to her was a probem. Then one night... in drunkiness i seen her, and clever old me thought it was a good idea to ask her out.. it got messy there. Anyway does anyone have any idea after all this time how to get her back? i really cant think of anything short of looking desperate
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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/me gropes around. Starts panicking.... Sweat drips from every pore... Starts missing heart beats... Finds the glass... lifts it... hits the red button:

EJECT
 
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Stay away for a while, change yourself and read the post by player_supreme. i think? on getting out of friend zone.

6 months, too long buddy, i reckon your chance will have gone unless she is a real persistant girl.

Remember alls fair in love and war, if your mate has a crush on her and so do you, why does he get priority, scope it out with him and basically say fair dos to whoever gets her first next time.
 
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