A while ago, I approached this girl named Agnes and I basically made myself look like an AFC. Sure I talked confidently, but I mainly just asked a bunch of questions, and did nothing else. But then dude, I saw her in the hallway and she looked hot, so I thought "Maybe I shouldn't give up on this chick". So I'm wondering, if you had a bad impression with a girl, maybe came off as an AFC, maybe even annoying, should you keep persuing her?
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Bad first impression. Should I keep persuing this girl?
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Yeah, a bunch of times.
It's no biggie, just need one time to show them how awesome you are.
It's no biggie, just need one time to show them how awesome you are.
Next time you talk to the girl Make it seem like you have a bad impression of her ignore her interrupt her, walk away, while calling her a weirdo. make her feel like what you feel like. Any time a female gives me any AFC thoughts i just use them against her to lose my one its , but you have to play it off like shes the one that left a bad impression.
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I see, nice advice guys. I saw her tonight after the band concert, but I didn't say anything. Infact, I was wondering what she was even doing there, maybe she has a friend in band who invited her or something. Nonetheless, that definitely means she saw me play(I played bass guitar in jazz band, and baritone sax in concert band. This was sort of a concert for both). The reason I'm scared to talk t her again is, well, what if make the same mistakes again?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
We'll if she was at all interested, she wouldn't be ignoring me basically every time she sees me in the hall. Plus, I was basically getting sort of a bad vibe from the whole group. Know what's it like to be interviewed? Well, I basically did that. I might just give up on the girl considering she's a senior and she's leaving pretty soon anyway. Who's to say that if I approach these girls again I won't screw up and do the interview thing again?
Only a hor will approach you. A real, feminine woman waits for you to be aggressive yourself and will not approach! Don't chicken out. Unless she ignores you *after* you smile/wave/greet her, then don't sweat it.We'll if she was at all interested, she wouldn't be ignoring me basically every time she sees me in the hall.
Besides, you have only talked with her once, and you said it left a bad first impression. Why would she be interested in you at this point? You obviously have to take action if you want to raise her IL.
a pretty good excuse, I'll grant you. I'm a senior in college and lately I've given up the whole dating thing 'til after i graduate.I might just give up on the girl considering she's a senior and she's leaving pretty soon anyway.
then you'll probably be dragged into the street and shot like a dog. Oh wait, no, that's what happens when you criticize the Iranian government in Tehran...My mistake. I was confusing the consequences of different actions.The reason I'm scared to talk t her again is, well, what if make the same mistakes again?