"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Bad fad: girls wearing dorky glasses
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
ELMER_GANTRY
Don Juan
you can always take glasses off and you wouldn't be turned off.
KarmaSutra
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That's the most ignorant sh!t I will ever see.
Chicks with big glasses means more space for me to blow a load on.
Fred_Scuttle
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are you a bow tie and suspenders man?KarmaSutra said:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ka9mCmx9Jhs
This s--- was all the rage on the Upper West Side and Chelsea. Then it spread to the malls of suburbia. This was back when girls actually left the house to go out on the weekend instead of jerking around on facebook.
Aww ****, Lisa Loeb. Welcome to my crush circa 1994. In the running with Wynona Ryder and Joan Osborne at the time. I'm sure she's still hot as fvck.BigJimbo said:
Anyway, as you all can see I used to LOVE those glasses on a girl. I don't anymore. The glasses seem to be on all girls. Can't stand when my weird thing is embraced by everyone. Besides as I age my glasses get thicker and thicker and two of us with thick glasses is just one too much.
Honorable mention to old-school Tina Fey!
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.