Okay so I was 'dating' some girl in a computer game, called World of Warcraft. You may have all kinds of thoughts about that, but it was realistic enough to teach me something.
First date almost went bad but i saved it.
Second date went very well.
Today was third date.
I was in a bit of a bad position because our characters couldn't meet up due to some bug, and we ended up meeting up with me being level 5 and she being level 85, which made her like being the one who has the car.
I ended up making two mistakes.
First, I called my character jokingly "5 years old" which implied that she was 85 years old. There was a bit like that in the movie Groundhog Day, where she says "I studied 19th century french poetry" and he says "ha, what a waste of time." Then he tries to save it, which doesn't work, so he says something different the next day. Well, after that remark, she started making my life a bit miserable.
And then I made the mistake of calling her helmet unsexy. She was wearing some hideous thing that hid her face for the most part, but apparently she liked it very much.
After that, she started making fat jokes about me. She turned negative. Then I virtually slapped her, and she threw a fit about that, disbanding the group, telling me not to talk to her. She came back to me, but started giving me those "why?" questions. Wanting to know the reason behind everything.
It ended with "Well, see you sometime..." "Yeah..."
So from what I understand, I killed her attraction for me by making her feel bad in my company. From what I understand also, there is no way to salvage that.
Maybe the helmet remark hit so hard because I hadn't complimented her on her outfit yet, while I knew she had chosen that outfit for the occasion. In truth, while the basis of her outfit was very sexy, she wore some hideous helmet and shoulderpiece which made it hard to compliment on it.
All of this may sound fake and unreal, but it could have happened in real life as well. Glad to learn from it.
What are your thoughts, in general? Please treat it as some real life thing. My chances are gone, right?
First date almost went bad but i saved it.
Second date went very well.
Today was third date.
I was in a bit of a bad position because our characters couldn't meet up due to some bug, and we ended up meeting up with me being level 5 and she being level 85, which made her like being the one who has the car.
I ended up making two mistakes.
First, I called my character jokingly "5 years old" which implied that she was 85 years old. There was a bit like that in the movie Groundhog Day, where she says "I studied 19th century french poetry" and he says "ha, what a waste of time." Then he tries to save it, which doesn't work, so he says something different the next day. Well, after that remark, she started making my life a bit miserable.
And then I made the mistake of calling her helmet unsexy. She was wearing some hideous thing that hid her face for the most part, but apparently she liked it very much.
After that, she started making fat jokes about me. She turned negative. Then I virtually slapped her, and she threw a fit about that, disbanding the group, telling me not to talk to her. She came back to me, but started giving me those "why?" questions. Wanting to know the reason behind everything.
It ended with "Well, see you sometime..." "Yeah..."
So from what I understand, I killed her attraction for me by making her feel bad in my company. From what I understand also, there is no way to salvage that.
Maybe the helmet remark hit so hard because I hadn't complimented her on her outfit yet, while I knew she had chosen that outfit for the occasion. In truth, while the basis of her outfit was very sexy, she wore some hideous helmet and shoulderpiece which made it hard to compliment on it.
All of this may sound fake and unreal, but it could have happened in real life as well. Glad to learn from it.
What are your thoughts, in general? Please treat it as some real life thing. My chances are gone, right?
