organizedconfusion
Master Don Juan
when you guys have a bad day and then still go out and sarge- how do you guys pull yourselves out of that state where you feel like complete crap?
you know what i am talking about, when you don't want to approach but do it anyways- you feel like crap, she's all like 'WTF?' and you'd much rather be at home watching TV or playing video games. i am talking about horrible days, the days when all of your insecurities creep out at you, you are self-concious and stiff because you feel as if people are watching you and you are just totaly completly incongruent.Truthfully, i pull some lame a$$ lines anyways and i don't really care about the girl or the outcome (i know it sound terrible) i am just doing it to get over that anxious feeling that milisecond right before the approach- i want to actually feel positive that i am approaching eventually.
Why sarge on a day like this? because i have heard that getting used to being able to function in that state, and feeling the fear and doing it anyways- is the best way to conquer that feeling.
Is there any truth to this?
just plowing through, even if it's a rejection because every rejection is a chance to grow and develop a 'thicker skin'.
every rejection is a chance to grow and develop a 'thicker skin'
every rejection is a chance to grow and develop a 'thicker skin'
every rejection is a chance to grow and develop a 'thicker skin'
every rejection is a chance to grow and develop a 'thicker skin'
thats right keep on telling yourself that...
god , eventhough i know it's making me touger and more resiliant
to rejection- at the end of those days..i can't help but feel pissed off.Of course i feel better then not putting myself out there and having more balls then average guys do..but still- that feeling of rejection sucks. and i am left thinking about the rejections more then the successess...Doh! I am really in the stage of just collecting as many ##'s as i can and just getting used to the approach itself. I never imagined it would be soo nerve racking- compared to the 'passive seduction' that i am used to, this seems way more challenging to start out with.
oh well, back to the drawing board..
P.S.
i ran a S.S. pattern the other day on a really hot russian girl..and she asked me if i was on drugs :crackup: the only i could think of to say was '...so do you think the rock star David Bowie is hot?' to top things off, i freaked out and shook her hand -then left!
you know what i am talking about, when you don't want to approach but do it anyways- you feel like crap, she's all like 'WTF?' and you'd much rather be at home watching TV or playing video games. i am talking about horrible days, the days when all of your insecurities creep out at you, you are self-concious and stiff because you feel as if people are watching you and you are just totaly completly incongruent.Truthfully, i pull some lame a$$ lines anyways and i don't really care about the girl or the outcome (i know it sound terrible) i am just doing it to get over that anxious feeling that milisecond right before the approach- i want to actually feel positive that i am approaching eventually.
Why sarge on a day like this? because i have heard that getting used to being able to function in that state, and feeling the fear and doing it anyways- is the best way to conquer that feeling.
Is there any truth to this?
just plowing through, even if it's a rejection because every rejection is a chance to grow and develop a 'thicker skin'.
every rejection is a chance to grow and develop a 'thicker skin'
every rejection is a chance to grow and develop a 'thicker skin'
every rejection is a chance to grow and develop a 'thicker skin'
every rejection is a chance to grow and develop a 'thicker skin'
thats right keep on telling yourself that...
god , eventhough i know it's making me touger and more resiliant
to rejection- at the end of those days..i can't help but feel pissed off.Of course i feel better then not putting myself out there and having more balls then average guys do..but still- that feeling of rejection sucks.
and i am left thinking about the rejections more then the successess...Doh! I am really in the stage of just collecting as many ##'s as i can and just getting used to the approach itself. I never imagined it would be soo nerve racking- compared to the 'passive seduction' that i am used to, this seems way more challenging to start out with.oh well, back to the drawing board..
P.S.
i ran a S.S. pattern the other day on a really hot russian girl..and she asked me if i was on drugs :crackup: the only i could think of to say was '...so do you think the rock star David Bowie is hot?' to top things off, i freaked out and shook her hand -then left!