"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I saw this music video, and I became inspired to change my dress style. I am in medical school now and I want to pull as many HB8+ as possible here in college.
I am 6'3, 205 lbs. I'm muscular, with broad shoulders. I usually wear dress shirts, RL sweaters with chinos, 800$ desert boots or dress shoes.

It seems like the bad boy style works much better when trying to pull young girls rather than dressing preppy, because you come across as more aggressive and fun. I'm considering buying a nice leather jacket and wearing more tanktops/white t-shirts with dark jeans.

This handsome guy who's singing looks badass in this video (it's in swedish, just disregard the audio and look at his style):
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=SscxB0a-1xg

What do you guys think about his style? What do you think about dressing like a bad boy rather than preppy in college?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Just be you man ..you don't need all that to attract women.
I'm 6'4 220 lb ...not the best looking but I know how to speak to women.

Just make sure you smell nice and don't have bad breath ..
 

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LMFAO, you put up that video? hahaha... I wish the people here could understand what they say in the beginning. It's so damn funny. Where are you at, Stockholm?
 

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Yorkex said:
Just be you man ..you don't need all that to attract women.
I'm 6'4 220 lb ...not the best looking but I know how to speak to women.

Just make sure you smell nice and don't have bad breath ..
Appearance matters a lot. I want to look the best I can. I just want to hear your opinions on having more of a bad boy style. I have the personality to pull it of.

AttackFormation said:
LMFAO, you put up that video? hahaha... I wish the people here could understand what they say in the beginning. It's so damn funny. Where are you at, Stockholm?
Yes. I'm in Stockholm and studying at KI. How about you?
 

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What do you guys think?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Haha this is funny lol

It dosent matter what “style” you have per se its more how you conduct yourself

The guys body language in that video says a lot more about him than his outfit
 

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Bingo-Player said:
Haha this is funny lol

It dosent matter what “style” you have per se its more how you conduct yourself

The guys body language in that video says a lot more about him than his outfit
Of course it matters how you dress yourself. Compare dressing like a homeless man with dressing in a tailored navy blue suit.
 

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Do whatever makes you comfortable. Wouldn't you be better off experimenting on hot babes rather than asking a bunch of guys?
 

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Bump
 

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The man makes the clothes. The clothes don't make the man.

You can dress well, but what good it will do if you have terrible body language?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Espi said:
I just bought a nice leather jacket and I love it. To go along with that, I bought a pair of Diesel (yes STILL rocking the Diesel at 43) dark straight cut and a plain tank top. That look exudes male daredevilism. It looks classy yet biker-ish.
Nice! That's pretty much the style I'm thinking about. What have peoples reactions been for you so far?

I'm going for:
Dark brown desert boots
Dark blue jeans
Tank top
Black leather jacket
Dark brown belt
Dark brown leather cuffs
Watch
 

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I bought a black leather jacket and some tanktops/v-neck shirts, and they fit great. Gonna buy some good accessories like a necklace and wristbands to perfect the look. The response has been great so far. I look like a bad boy, and it's easier to intimidate other guys.
I look more badass wearing things like these. Preppy clothing looks beta and boring, you look like too much of a nice guy in it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Is that before the aliens kidnapped mulder's sister? he looks much more relaxed than in x-files.
 

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As for Mr Preppy, he does not look like a high class monied preppy guy. More like you average Joe.
 

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Tictac said:
If you think that 'bad boy' is something you buy in a store, you haven't a clue.
It's both social and physical. I am already aware of that, read the thread next time.

Making myself look more like a bad boy has done wonders for me. I look much more extraverted and unpredictable. Have you guys noticed any difference to how people respond with the preppy and the bad boy look?
 

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Does anyone else think that no one in that video actually looks "bad boy"? Looks more like a bunch of metrosexuals trying to put up a front.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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