"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I saw this music video, and I became inspired to change my dress style. I am in medical school now and I want to pull as many HB8+ as possible here in college.
I am 6'3, 205 lbs. I'm muscular, with broad shoulders. I usually wear dress shirts, RL sweaters with chinos, 800$ desert boots or dress shoes.

It seems like the bad boy style works much better when trying to pull young girls rather than dressing preppy, because you come across as more aggressive and fun. I'm considering buying a nice leather jacket and wearing more tanktops/white t-shirts with dark jeans.

This handsome guy who's singing looks badass in this video (it's in swedish, just disregard the audio and look at his style):
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=SscxB0a-1xg

What do you guys think about his style? What do you think about dressing like a bad boy rather than preppy in college?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Just be you man ..you don't need all that to attract women.
I'm 6'4 220 lb ...not the best looking but I know how to speak to women.

Just make sure you smell nice and don't have bad breath ..
 

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LMFAO, you put up that video? hahaha... I wish the people here could understand what they say in the beginning. It's so damn funny. Where are you at, Stockholm?
 

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Yorkex said:
Just be you man ..you don't need all that to attract women.
I'm 6'4 220 lb ...not the best looking but I know how to speak to women.

Just make sure you smell nice and don't have bad breath ..
Appearance matters a lot. I want to look the best I can. I just want to hear your opinions on having more of a bad boy style. I have the personality to pull it of.

AttackFormation said:
LMFAO, you put up that video? hahaha... I wish the people here could understand what they say in the beginning. It's so damn funny. Where are you at, Stockholm?
Yes. I'm in Stockholm and studying at KI. How about you?
 

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What do you guys think?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Haha this is funny lol

It dosent matter what “style” you have per se its more how you conduct yourself

The guys body language in that video says a lot more about him than his outfit
 

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Bingo-Player said:
Haha this is funny lol

It dosent matter what “style” you have per se its more how you conduct yourself

The guys body language in that video says a lot more about him than his outfit
Of course it matters how you dress yourself. Compare dressing like a homeless man with dressing in a tailored navy blue suit.
 

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Do whatever makes you comfortable. Wouldn't you be better off experimenting on hot babes rather than asking a bunch of guys?
 

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Bump
 

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The man makes the clothes. The clothes don't make the man.

You can dress well, but what good it will do if you have terrible body language?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Espi said:
I just bought a nice leather jacket and I love it. To go along with that, I bought a pair of Diesel (yes STILL rocking the Diesel at 43) dark straight cut and a plain tank top. That look exudes male daredevilism. It looks classy yet biker-ish.
Nice! That's pretty much the style I'm thinking about. What have peoples reactions been for you so far?

I'm going for:
Dark brown desert boots
Dark blue jeans
Tank top
Black leather jacket
Dark brown belt
Dark brown leather cuffs
Watch
 

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I bought a black leather jacket and some tanktops/v-neck shirts, and they fit great. Gonna buy some good accessories like a necklace and wristbands to perfect the look. The response has been great so far. I look like a bad boy, and it's easier to intimidate other guys.
I look more badass wearing things like these. Preppy clothing looks beta and boring, you look like too much of a nice guy in it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Is that before the aliens kidnapped mulder's sister? he looks much more relaxed than in x-files.
 

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As for Mr Preppy, he does not look like a high class monied preppy guy. More like you average Joe.
 

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Tictac said:
If you think that 'bad boy' is something you buy in a store, you haven't a clue.
It's both social and physical. I am already aware of that, read the thread next time.

Making myself look more like a bad boy has done wonders for me. I look much more extraverted and unpredictable. Have you guys noticed any difference to how people respond with the preppy and the bad boy look?
 

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Does anyone else think that no one in that video actually looks "bad boy"? Looks more like a bunch of metrosexuals trying to put up a front.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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