"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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johnmich

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this is acne on your back - duh

I have recently got this pretty bad and wondered if anyone has any tips, help or has it too.

Thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Skilla_Staz

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I've got it. Tanning works. Accutane is the only solution that has worked full time for me. Scrubbing your back with a wash cloth at least once a day helps keep it down as well.
 

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I used to have it real bad. Now it has cleared up. I think I grew out of it for the most part, and I changed my diet. Yeah like Skilla_Staz says, tanning helps!

A website I went to for advice on acne was http://www.acne.org That site has helped me get on the road to becoming clear with diet advice, and skin care steps..

Hope that site helps you as much as it helped me.
 
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