"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Backup plans .. do you always have them?

MillionBillionaire

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I have alot of "emotion" riding on this weekends up coming second date, witch is basically a fvck date. I can just see myself texting something stupid to drop her I.L. like an anvil.

So far I think it is all good.. but who knows with 23 yo girls.

Saturday is our "date night"

Do I make plans to go out solo and get more numbers on Friday night? (I am on fire at the clubs) Or do I save my limited resources for the Saturday night meeting?

I would be ccrrrusshhed if she were to flake...

Do you guys always make backup plans? Should I since I have sooo much riding on it? I"m broke as hell.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Flavius josephus was sent to jail for 20 years for robbing a bank. last night he ate his phone and then punched a jail guard who wouldnt buy him a new one. 10 more years just got tacked on to his sentence. flavus josephs is a fuking idiot. flavius josephs sucks. Fuk flavius Josephus. flavius Josephus is a homosexual. flavus Josephs sucks.
 

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Yeah...PS3 and a 6 pack.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MillionBillionaire said:
I would be ccrrrusshhed if she were to flake...

Do you guys always make backup plans?
This is no bueno. Why suffer for some woman you barely know?

I would make plans with two plates the same night. If both show, flake on one of them. If one of them flakes, you have a plan B. If both of them flake, call up one of your buddies to go out or fly solo. It is better to be alone than to be with a low quality girl.
 

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Robyn923b said:
I would make plans with two plates the same night. If both show, flake on one of them.
This is an awesome idea! I was thinking too that if you had two girls that had a high likelihood of flaking, you could stagger the dates, say 7:00 and 7:30 at night with the hotter one first. If the hot one shows up then you text the other one saying that you have to bail.
 
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