"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Backup plans .. do you always have them?

MillionBillionaire

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I have alot of "emotion" riding on this weekends up coming second date, witch is basically a fvck date. I can just see myself texting something stupid to drop her I.L. like an anvil.

So far I think it is all good.. but who knows with 23 yo girls.

Saturday is our "date night"

Do I make plans to go out solo and get more numbers on Friday night? (I am on fire at the clubs) Or do I save my limited resources for the Saturday night meeting?

I would be ccrrrusshhed if she were to flake...

Do you guys always make backup plans? Should I since I have sooo much riding on it? I"m broke as hell.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Flavius josephus was sent to jail for 20 years for robbing a bank. last night he ate his phone and then punched a jail guard who wouldnt buy him a new one. 10 more years just got tacked on to his sentence. flavus josephs is a fuking idiot. flavius josephs sucks. Fuk flavius Josephus. flavius Josephus is a homosexual. flavus Josephs sucks.
 

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Yeah...PS3 and a 6 pack.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MillionBillionaire said:
I would be ccrrrusshhed if she were to flake...

Do you guys always make backup plans?
This is no bueno. Why suffer for some woman you barely know?

I would make plans with two plates the same night. If both show, flake on one of them. If one of them flakes, you have a plan B. If both of them flake, call up one of your buddies to go out or fly solo. It is better to be alone than to be with a low quality girl.
 

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Robyn923b said:
I would make plans with two plates the same night. If both show, flake on one of them.
This is an awesome idea! I was thinking too that if you had two girls that had a high likelihood of flaking, you could stagger the dates, say 7:00 and 7:30 at night with the hotter one first. If the hot one shows up then you text the other one saying that you have to bail.
 
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