Back with the same adventure diff girl

[sadonomspa]

Hey guys,

I have not posted here in awhile. Some might remember me. But here are my stats.

I was married. My wife joined the Navy. I thought she was BPD and you can see my past posts on that. She ****ed an 18 year old marine, left me, I find out later he was 40 and she wanted me back.. Did not take her lol Had someone else. Since than I have not spoken to my ex in over a year.

Anyway. Met this girl last summer through my boys girlfriend. Turns out she use to be a lesbian but has dated guys before.

She was 24 at the time now 25. Wanted to have more sex than anything I ever knew or saw. Didn't really enjoy sex because I became numb from so much. lol.

We have been together for a year. Now she is going to Medical school in the Bahammas because her grades sucked sh*t and couldnt get in an American School. So she wants to become a Neuro Surgeon.

I find out a month before she leaves that her ex girlfriend got accepted into the same school!?! I mean out of all the red flags. Then I find out my girl is on celexa because she was to damn manic and the past and needed to stay level.

She is a spoiled girl by her mom and step dad. Mom got divorced twice because she cheated on dad and step dad. But that doesnt stop all her parents from giving her what she wants.

A little about me now. I work for a pretty well known fashion designer here in NYC. I go to fashion shows, meet hot girls, even had the top super model offer to take me out to lunch.(pretty good ego boast for someone who was just getting divorced)

I know a little about game, I was AFC for awhile with my wife. Became alpha because I just didnt care and was focused so much on landing this job with the fashion people.

I am in a dilema again because I let myself go back in a LDR. Alot of similiar things between her and my ex wife but my ex wife never looked at me so much and so hard the way this girl looks at me.

I never stressed my girlfriend esp given her background and my background. But now she is in the Bahammas.(well now in Florida because of the hurricane)

She left last month and we have had 4 skype chats and are both guilty of cancelling on others.

She told me today she gets drunk every night in her room with her nieghbors who are also students that get to have their own apartments in a complex.

I mean she wont text me sometimes because she fell asleep or texts me real late at 4am. Parties with this ex pat Americans who live on the Island while all her peers are studying.

So she tells me today she gets drunk because she misses me and that she thought a LDR would be easy. She even freakin tells me she loves me for the first time a day before she leaves.(she said it first)

I was sort of looking forward to her leaving again but when she said love I got all messed up!

Now she is b*tchin to me because she says she feels survivors guilt about coming back to the USA while all of her little school island suffers in wait for this hurricane.

She has only been there a month and seems to be falling apart. I mean I am too and I want to get some advice from you guys. I know these are so many red flags and a year ago I would not have stood for it. Broke up w girls because they didnt stop Sh(9t testing me.

I notice that our roles are reversing where I am becoming the needy one and I don't like this feeling.

With NYC fashion week literally around the corner I need to focus.

Any advice on calming the thoughts in my head?

 

[scrouds]

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[5string]

More next.

 

[The_411]

There is no such thing as a long distrance relationship. It's a romantic fallacy that has no hope of success. Yes, I know there are people who have ahd a long distance relationship and been successful blah blah blah jsut like there are affair partners who get married and next cheat. These are extreme statisitical outliers which means you'd have a better chance to be attacked by a bear or struck by lightning.

you saw the red flags already and more were revealed like she's drinking every night with guys.

She sounds terribly unhealthy. Move on to save yourself the heartache.

 

[sadonomspa]

Yea.. Well I know she goes out with mostly girls but still who the hell knows if shes lying. Besides the fact she has more guy friends than girls.

I come to find out a friend of hers whos band we went to go see use to be her ex boyfriend in High School...

Shoot. You guys are making me remember stuff now more vividly.

So what now? Go to the fashion show and hook some?

 

[scrouds]

You never mentioned you're a hooker. Yeah go to the fashion show and hook a little, go make me some cash.

 

[sadonomspa]

Sheeetttt.. Usually on the weekends but if this falls on a Thursday I am screwed